ABCs of Presenting- A Trainer Staple

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We don’t operate on instinct but on learning as well.

The topics of Training and Development, and Communication are so intricately entwined that I can’t help myself talking about it.

I argue that the basic communication process is not simple, but in concept it is really–and those who get the Primer embedded have the easiest time adding the complicated parts. Never say, “in other words.” Never say never. If what I just said sounded like a bunch of gobbledygook, let me clarify.

I have been at this communication business a long time as an actor, speaker, trainer and writer, but also as a father, a husband, a student, an employee, a person of the world. We are unique among species on this planet in that we can communicate complex information, sometimes beautifully in a variety of media (some call it art)–that we can transfer ideas and not just distress calls, territorial warnings, or send sexual signals for perpetuating our species. Naturally we do do those other things and more, but we forget how special each and everyone of us is. We have differences. We don’t operate on instinct, but on learning as well. We learn, teach, promote, propagandize, analyze, dissect, clarify, obfuscate and can use a hundred million other words that address how we can manipulate language to our own purposes. Those purposes are why we speak.

Stop taking communication for granted. I see too many trainers either take it for granted or are too focused on the information and expected results than knowing if their message is truly received.

Believe it or not some trainers are actually afraid of speaking, but it is nothing to be ashamed of. They are subject-matter experts who need to understand communicating that information is not about who knows it best. That’s a difficult concept for managers to believe as well. And, the debate goes on. This writer believes the subject can be presented in such a way by a trainer (communicator) without apology if done right. If the subject and object of the training is to transmit complex information the audience will readily and anxiously absorb, then by all means have a subject matter expert present and a communicator to assist with the communication aspects: organization, facilitation, and message as needed.

It’s simple: care about them, address their concerns, and they’ll care about you.

If you are afraid of speaking, it most likely has to do with how you see yourself in the equation, how you fit in. If you are speaking well and no one seems interested, maybe you haven’t taken your audience into account as much as your message. It’s simple: care about them, address their concerns, and they’ll care about you. There’s no guarantee they’ll buy your product, but they won’t be able to say a bad thing about you and they’re more like to remember and pass on what you say.

Knowing the subject is important, but unless someone is transcribing every word, it’s not necessary or preferable to be a know-it-all. You own the stage on behalf of the people in the audience, give them what they need to know, and the means and desire to find the rest if you can. Your efforts make you a leader, more of a fountain of information, which is better than faucet that shoots out information.

Be honest and genuine. Self-deprecating humor is funny; it means you’re human. Do not make fun of your audience. Instead build them up (within reason) and treat them like thinking adults and they will respond. Too much love and they will dismiss you. It seems disingenuous even if “the love” is totally sincere. Knowing the difference between your audience and yourself is important in how you convey that information: respectfully, humorously, flippantly, scientifically, politically correct, etc.

If the message we are sending is not received, it may as well not be sent. Communication must be understood as intended or again our purpose in sending the information is a waste of time. My mantra of know your audience, know your subject, and know yourself places communication at a very basic level. You have to know these things or you will not be able to communicate effectively. You may be able to present or speak beautifully, but if your audience doesn’t “give a damn,” you’ve achieved nothing–unless the act of speaking as some perverse form of entertainment was your purpose. Unless, of course, your audience was all set to hear your lovely voice, listen to the pattern of your words and sit there patiently until you finished. It happens. People are polite, but while that is nice, we want our messages heard. Don’t worry I haven’t forgotten the times we do speak to entertain, motivate or inspire. If any speaker or trainer is more concerned about his or her audience, it is then.

So what are the basic ABCs of presenting?

  • Know your audience, know your subject and know yourself. Remember to never hold yourself higher than your audience. You may own the stage and were asked to be there because you have great know, but it is your audience you are there to serve and you owe it to them. If you do see yourself in higher regard than the audience, then restrain yourself and read my post on Character Training.
  • In developing your presentation (or modifying a standard product to fit) customize it to the point you don’t have to explain why this presentation isn’t for every audience member. It pretty much should be and you should ask enough before, after and during the presentation to make sure your message was heard loud and clear.
  • Don’t stumble where your knowledge is concerned. If you need to write it down so you get it exactly correct, don’t worry about apologizing to your audience that your going to read a small important excerpt. I emphasize small. Give them a link or reference if they want or need more. Unless you are the source and your session is taking more the form of a college lecture, keep it short and to the point. We’ve all heard of KISS. Keep your presentation Short and Simple. As I tell essay students: don’t write more than you have to get your point across. Follow the basic rule of telling ’em what you’re going to tell ’em, tell ’em, and tell them what you told them.
  • Bring the “you” into your presentation (it is an essay, too). Without you in the presentation, anyone can give the information. With you in the presentation, it is unique and becomes part of the message. You flavor the information with your point of view. Information is one thing; message is another. It’s one thing to know something. For example, everyone knows how to communicate; we just forget some aspects and not do it well all the time. For those of us whose job it is to communicate, the message is all important, which is what we add to it. A rule of thumb for me as I bring in a point is to relate it in some way to my audience via example, illustration, anecdote, statistic–anything that brings it closer to them. We add the spice and make it memorable to our audience. It is our gift. Make it a valuable one.

Final words.

… stick to the basic rule …of saying more than you show, and handing out more than you say.

If you are reading this, you are a gift to me. People who care. The words above are my opinion and I know some communication professionals may not agree or have other pointers. One of the things I like to do when I do a presentation on presenting is to stick to the basic rule again of saying more than you show, and handing out more than you say. I provide a series of handouts or links at the end of my presentation that contains other points of view and other expressions of some of the same subjects. As a theatre director, one thing is always clear, not everyone gets every word you say. I can explain a concept one way and another person can use a different approach.

My bottom line: I don’t care how my audience gets the information. I’m there as an authority but my ego can handle the fact that if I weren’t there some “other” authority would be. By handing out information that agrees with me I enhance my credibility, and by handing out information that takes another view I make myself a person open to other views, therefore a leader. I can live with that.

So much for short and simple. Must I control that passion to write 1500 words? Yes, if I don’t want to lose readers who read the first paragraph only. As a teacher, I have a tendency to go long with explanation to make sure I have communicated well with everyone. As a coach I feel my best communication is realized in person, I also understand time is rare and with the current media tools available it is possible to look at coaching from a distance via Skype or similar tools, via DVD, or even via phone. I also apply skills in training development and training for companies as well. Enough of a promo. Check out my website for more blogs and information on my philosophies of coaching and training. Meanwhile, I appreciate and will continue using this as a vehicle to express my ideas and concerns in the area of training and development; I hope you continue to join me, RSS, or sign up for regular blogs. I try to do two a week, sometime three, and I welcome guest bloggers. Check out the link at the top. Next time, more on presentation development.

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Don’t Just Manage Your Time, Improve Your Productivity

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Each of us has 24 hours every day. No matter how well we manage it, it still adds up to 24 hours.

So, instead of managing time, we need to manage our activities – what we do in those 24 hours. In this post, I’ll focus on how to be more productive in the workplace.

Here is what effective managers do to improve their productivity.

1. Be laser focused.
Is your day filled with urgent requests – this must get done now? But are these requests important? Will they help you achieve the goals of your boss, your team, your department? Having clear priorities will help you know what to say yes to and what to say no to.

2. Analyze your “to-do” list.
Every day ask these three questions. (1) What would happen if I don’t do this at all? If the answer is nothing, stop doing it! (2) Will this activity move me closer to achieving my critical priorities? If the answer is no, don’t do it! (3) Can this be delegated? If yes, assign it!

3. Set boundaries.
Pick your most creative time of day and then ring a fence around it. This means setting a block of time when you’re unavailable or not responding immediately to email. What’s the worst thing that can happen? What’s the best thing?

4. Streamline meetings.
Starting today cut all meeting times by 25 percent. It can be done! Every meeting, even 10 minute ones, should have an agenda with times, tasks, people and actions. Use the agenda as a tool to control discussion and decision making.

5. Do a quick review.
After putting out the fire, go one step further and analyze the crisis. Ask yourself and your team: Is there a pattern here; why did it occur; what can we have done to avoid it? Then take actions prevent it from happening again.

Management Success Tip:

Review your past week and your past month. How much of your time was involved in the urgent? Where are you being challenged? Now split your challenges into:

  • The enemy out there (an unexpected crisis, others not meeting deadlines).
  • The enemy within (poor planning, procrastination, lack of assertiveness).

What causes you the most grief? How are you going to deal with it?

Do you want to develop your Management Smarts?

    Climbing The Career Walls In Our Lives

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    climbing the walls in our livesWe have all experienced walls or challenges in our lives.

    They may be personal; they may be professional; they may be both. No one is exempt from career challenge, disappointment and even failure.

    There are a variety of ways to attack these walls – some more effective than others. How you handle the walls can be a defining point in your leadership and in your career. Here are five common ways.

    1. Just level it.
    If the wall is causing a problem, we just need to get rid of it. It’s in our way. This approach requires nothing but mindless action. At least we know we’re doing something. We flail away at the problem with minimal success. We act with no sense of purpose or deep understanding of the outcome. But the problem can come back and transform into one big hairy monster.

    2. Replay the tape.
    Sometimes, we assume that all walls can be conquered with the same approach. It worked before, it should work again.We stare at it and remember last year’s plan. But all walls are different. Fresh approaches are needed and expected in today’s constant changing environment.

    3. Delay, delay, delay.
    The wall is in front of us, but we hope it will go away. However, it will not shrink or disappear. Rather, it will become more menacing the longer it is allowed to stand.

    4. Deny, deny, deny.
    We can conquer this situation; but why should we? It really is not a problem. But, we know it is. The wall creates a personal fear. We avoid the struggle. However the challenge must be engaged.

    5. Climb over with the 3 A’s.

    • Do an assessment. Step away and gain a clear perspective of the problem. What is the real wall I’m confronting? Why does it exist? Have I created it through my behavior?
    • Then create an agenda asking these questions. How am I going to attack the wall? What are the best approaches? What is my plan?
    • Finally take action. Throw procrastination out; dump denial and move forward. Your confidence is up; you understand the actions it will take; and you have prepared.

    Readers, is there one or more that you automatically utilize? Does it work for you or cause you more challenges?

    Career Success Tip

    Believe in your ability to climb over walls. Visualize yourself dealing with a specific challenge successfully. First assume it’s possible; second rehearse doing it in your imagination; third do it; and fourth congratulate yourself and celebrate. You’ve taken charge of your life and career.

    Do you want to develop Career Smarts?

    Is your SHRM membership on your resume?

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    In the past eighteen years, I have reviewed thousands of resumes. Many of them look very similar with an occasional one here or there that attempts to stand out by changing a font style or color. If you are walking around in front of my office on any given day, you may actually hear me talking to the resume as if its owner can hear me. Aside from the font issues, (by the way, the fancy font makes a resume difficult to read and impossible to scan) what I find that evokes comments even more is what is listed on the resume.

    Hopefully by now, you have heard or read enough advice to know that giving me your job description doesn’t tell me what I want to know. I need to know what did, how you did it, and what were you able to accomplish. I need verbs, actions, and results. Simple as that. Sure if you want to list on your resume that you were “employee of the month” that is great, but what I really care about is what you did to earn that recognition and why it was important in your role. If you can give me that in a concise way on your resume, even better. If not, I am going to ask you if you make it to the interview, so be prepared to give the details.

    The same thing applies to the memberships you list. If you list your SHRM membership on your resume, what are trying to tell me? If you simply paid you membership dues (or had your company pay the dues) and that is the extent of your involvement, then I wouldn’t even add it. If you don’t use your membership, then it doesn’t matter. I need verbs, actions, and results. Even if you are a national only member who uses the website for its vast amount of research and resources, then it’s good to list. However, I wouldn’t just list it as an affiliation. Tell me concisely in one line what you do with your membership.

    Verbs, Actions, and Results. Easy to Read and Scan.

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    Sheri Mazurek is a training and human resource professional with over 16 years of management experience, and is skilled in all areas of employee management and human resource functions, with a specialty in learning and development. She is available to help you with your Human Resources and Training needs on a contract basis. For more information send an email to smazurek0615@gmail.com or visit www.sherimazurek.com. Follow me on twitter @Sherimaz.

    P is for Paula Huston

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    I recommend to you holy simplicity. – St. Francis de Sales

    Paula Huston – an author, professor, wife and mother – wrote the book The Holy Way: Practices for a Simple Life from her experience trying to simplify her life so that she could bring more meaning, peace and spirituality to her life. I enjoyed being with her on this journey as I could relate to many things that she struggled with and appreciated many of the things she chose to change in her life. According to Paula, she identified and experienced these practices which transformed her life.

    Ten ways to bring about holy simplicity

    1. Solitude
    2. Silence
    3. Awareness
    4. Purity
    5. Devotion
    6. Right livelihood
    7. Confidence
    8. Integrity
    9. Generosity
    10. Tranquility

    Meaningful messages I received from these 10 ways

    I’ve had to anchor myself in a single, central reality – my longing for God – and allow everything else to arrange itself accordingly.

    Most of the clutter turns out to be internal verses external clutter, a result of the kind of person I am rather than the time and place in which I live.

    Spiritual life is under the public eye, yet somehow people must manage to withdraw into the private chamber of the heart in order to meet God.

    Simple does not mean easy.

    Solitude allows us to make room for the blessed and the transformative experience of being alone with God. Around this key we can build a unified life.

    Unless we go silent, we cannot hear his voice within us, which is so very still and small that it can be muffled by a stray thought.

    If we are to live simply, our choices must be deliberate ones.

    My wantings were a constant interruption to my concentration. Each time a desire rose, I had to intentionally deal with it – and this was taking literally hours out of my days.

    The quality of prayer has to do with the inner disposition of the mind and heart.

    When we find God, what we see is what was normally hidden: we see that we are not alone at all, but, in joining worshipfully together with our fellow human beings, we have become the very dwelling place of God.

    Cutting schedules, withdrawing from committees, skipping classes turning down opportunities; this is extremely uncomfortable business, especially in the eyes of the world. “I was slowly, deliberately, giving up my place in the center of things, my spot in the busy hub.”

    The life of holy simplicity is a life lived against the natural flow of things, a deliberate departure from business as usual.

    “It was not that the world grew small, but my heart was enlarged.” – St. Gregory

    It all comes back to love – God’s great love.

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    For more resources, see our Library topic Spirituality in the Workplace.

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    Janae Bower is an inspirational speaker, award-winning author and training consultant. She founded Finding IT, a company that specializes in personal and professional development getting to the heart of what matters most. She started Project GratOtude, a movement to increase gratitude in people’s lives.

    Defining, Accepting and Training “Innovation,” Part Two

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    If there were a key for ideas…maybe we would listen better.

    “We talk about innovation constantly, but step outside the chain of command and you get your hand slapped with the reminder that ‘You can’t understand the politics involved.’ The key to innovation is really believing that everyone has a worthwhile perspective — not saying it, but meaning it.”

    The quote above from a member of Gov Loop begins my second part of Defining, Accepting and Training “Innovation.” I agree with the quote above in it seems we give the idea–especially the part about allowing others to be innovative–lip service. Is it self-preservation or simply being careful or being cautious about change? One thing about innovation: it doesn’t occur with “careful,” and “cautious” people tend not to innovate very often. It takes a lot of nerve and risk to innovate.

    Anyway, here’s more on this topic, whether you call it change in the workplace or innovation.

    Can we teach others to be innovative? Is that what we really need? Here’s one view:

    “If you’re looking to teach people to “be innovative,” odds are you will be sorely disappointed in the end. This is not intended as a slight. I believe we are all creative, yet innovation is a type of creativity that comes naturally to people willing to challenge the status quo, defy the odds, experiment, improvise and to take risks. Can people be taught these talents? Sure, yet for those who don’t gravitate to these talents naturally, they will revert to old ways, and you’ll be back at square one.

    Perhaps a better target for innovation is not towards teaching people to “be innovative,” but instead teach leaders to create organizations with safe environments for experimentation, risk-taking, and exploring alternatives, and attracting people with these natural talents. Adding support for innovation as a performance appraisal evaluation area for key leaders helps.”

    The biggest problem anywhere with innovation and creativity is getting the status quo to give it a chance. Too often we find people are protecting fiefdoms and there is resistance to doing anything different. Innovation comes with a price, not a reward unless “speaking off topic” is welcomed. I find it mouthed at the top. I have seen innovative ideas offered. The people offering not high enough in rank or in the in-crowd, and so they were ignored. Then a committee was setup so it could come up with the same ideas and get credit. Look how creative we’re being as an organization!

    Some of the best ideas come from right here, where freedom reigns supreme.

    Sometimes the achieving innovation is as simple as saying, “Here’s what needs to be accomplished. I don’t care how you do it, but let me know when you have some ideas.”

    My daughter, Allie, hasn’t lost her nerve yet. She’s blessed with creativity, but she may be politically incorrect at times. Is that wrong?

    That’s the freedom to operate and use your brain. Identify those folks who have initiative and let them fly. There will be some who sit at their desks and do nothing. If showing initiative is a required part of their job descriptions, things can change. Reward and encourage demonstrations of leadership and innovation. I do agree they need a safe environment to operate in. Without that…

    For some who need to find the “safe” environment to express themselves may turn to outside the office to demonstrate leadership and innovation. When the primary job becomes secondary and the freedom to express yourself outside the office makes you more happy. Quitting or retirement is often the consequence in any job.

    Although each organization is different, higher headquarters wants to control rather than bond with regional offices, or lower divisions or departments–so afraid are they that something may happen that is unexpected. Unfortunately, true innovation is unexpected. Just as I think due credit should be given for training as a plus factor on evaluations, so should creativity and innovation.

    I don’t mean have a contest to save the government money. Only people with time on their hands bother. Management won’t say: If you can’t measure results and take credit for it, let’s wait until we find something that works that way. Problem is actions speak louder than words. Another way seems to be to have a blog, which for all purposes is supervised and hardly anonymous. Who will risk their jobs for an opinion they wish to express–no matter how good it is? Meanwhile, the appearance is that we innovative and soliciting feedback. The last two items are in the category of “saying it, not meaning it.”

    I don’t mean have a contest to save the government money. Only people with time on their hands bother.

    The government doesn’t really promote on merit–not across the board; it promotes by job series in a system manipulated by those at the top that discourages deviation from the norm. I have been told not to give some project to an employee who worked for me because it would give them a reason to ask for or earn a promotion. That kind of control stifles creativity and desire, and destroys morale as well. As long as we have a system that allows that kind of behavior rather than reward individuals, in spite of “unhelpful” supervisors for whatever reason, we’re stuck in mediocrity in some circles. That may be true of any very large organization, but I think it is a leadership training problem as well as a character one in some circumstances.

    One Gov Loop member said “I believe that innovation is the real world game for survival. But let’s not get stress out by trying to teach innovation. In today’s society everything around us keeps changing by the minute, especially technology, and when we can’t keep up we get stress and the 3-4 cups of caffeine each day can no longer keep you going any more.”

    This is so true.

    Who does the training? Most definitely a third party. It has been my experience that the offices I have worked for are afraid of innovation unless its pre-approved. A contractor will take the chance. Outside businesses face survival issues everyday, and without innovation many close their doors. Innovation means change, but a lot of other factors make it work. Environment, acceptance, leadership.

    Ed Bernacke, who works outside the United States in Australia and Canada mostly, has done this and gives his recommendations:

    Stop using the term ‘innovation’ and focus on the idea of creating a capacity to innovate. There is too much jargon and baggage linked to the concept of innovation (e.g., it is about technology and it takes risks).

    Focus on what people do everyday – they solve problems, create new initiatives, make decisions and deal with change. As such, focus on the skills for doing this more effectively.

    Consider people development from two perspectives:

    Skills: I wrote a guide on the innovative thinking to help launch a national public sector innovative thinking skills program in Singapore that was designed to build the capacity of the public sector to innovate. At the time, you could take 2-3 day training programs in the perspectives, tools and techniques of each of these skill areas:

    My son, Aidan, decided on a costume no one would know who it was; it was enough he knew it was an important statement.
    • Generating new insights and ideas – using tools and processes to create new ideas
    • Developing these ideas – expanding the idea into a full opportunity
    • Judging (or evaluating) ideas – using tools to know when an idea is ready for action
    • Communicating ideas – getting buy-in and support
    • Turning ideas into actions – defining implementation strategies and tactics
    • Team collaboration – how to work together more effectively

    Cognitive style – Do all people think alike? No. Do we manage our organizations ‘as if’ all people think alike? I suggest we do. Many groups use MBTI or Kirton Adaption-Innovation assessments to prompt a more sophisticated understanding to recognize that people with different thinking style will generate different types of ideas. Our goal is to learn how to collaborate with people who do not think like us. It is also about seeing the differences in the way people think as a form of expertise.

    The goal is not to tolerate these differences – it is harness them and use them. As such, someone who is more adaptive and structured should be focused on finding solutions to a problem that needs to be fixed or improved. An idea to do it better may solve the problem. In other cases, you may find a new, different and innovative idea to solve the problem. This takes someone who is more innovative in their style of thinking. The best idea is whatever solves the problem best.

    I suggest this is a pretty good place to start. You want some effort to go into the equivalent of a public sector “R&D” team to look at new service models and concepts. You want also want all staff to engage shaping a more innovative department.

    If you want a two page overview of the skills model email Ed Bernacki at info@wowgreatidea.com. Also you can download a very good guide and overview of public sector innovation from the Australia federal government ‘innovation’ department – See “Empowering Change.”

    So, that’s it. I hope I presented a perspective of definitions, acceptance or lack of acceptance. While I have retired from my Federal government job, I come away with having learned much, and I’m not done yet. I started early with the military and made the shift to Federal civil service later. In between I was my own boss and worked as a consultant and trainer. In my “spare” time I was something of an actor–at times even getting paid for it. I now put that experience all together in my company, which has been in operation somewhat part-time because of my full-time obligation.

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    I hold myself responsible for the above comments and opinions, especially my own. Please comment as you will, suggest, encourage, and feel free to disagree. I am totally available for consultation, public speaking engagements, training development, training presentation, coaching, and more. Please check out my website. It’s not about acting at all or it is everything about acting, depending on how you look at it. I am happy to discuss any proposition. For a look at the human side of training from my Cave Man perspective, please check out my book, The Cave Man Guide to Training and Development. Happy training.