Workaholism

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Workaholism

© Copyright Carter McNamara, MBA, PhD, Authenticity Consulting,
LLC
.
Adapted from the Field Guide to Leadership and Supervision in Business
and Field Guide to Leadership and Supervision for Nonprofit Staff.

Workaholism is an addiction. It’s the illusion, and associated
destructive behaviors caused from that illusion, that a person
can effectively address challenges in life and work exclusively
by working harder at work.

The addiction seems to follow this cycle. Discomforts in life
and work cause the person to seek relief from those discomforts.
The primary form of relief that the person (the “workaholic”)
has access to, and believes in the most, is to feel good by accomplishing
something as part of their job at work. So the workaholic attends
to getting something done at work. However, as the workaholic
attends increasingly to getting things done at work, their personal
life begins to suffer from lack of attention. As their personal
life suffers, it causes more discomfort for the workaholic, so
the workaholic works even harder at getting more things done at
work, causing their personal lives to suffer even more — and
the vicious cycle, or compulsive work syndrome, goes on and on.

One of the most difficult problems in recovering from workaholism
is that the workaholic’s hard work is often viewed by the person’s
superiors (supervisors and upper management) as superior performance,
so they are rewarded for their hard work. Fortunately, many people
in organizations are learning to recognize the signs of workaholism
and to realize that, ultimately, the addiction hurts the person’s
performance.

Various Perspectives on Workaholism

Workaholism and Marriage
In
Defense of Workaholism

Are You a Workaholic?

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Attitude
Authenticity
Awareness
Bullying
(Addressing)

Burnout
Cynicism
Emotional
Intelligence

Financial
Fitness

Job
Satisfaction

Motivating
and Inspiring Yourself

Personal
Development

Personal
Productivity

Physical
Fitness

Self-Confidence
Stress
Management

Work-Life
Balance

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Work-Life Balance — Balancing Your Work and Personal Life

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Work-Life Balance — Balancing Your Work and Personal Life

The topic of work-life balance applies to a person’s effort to be effective
in their work life and in their personal life, as well. This topic wasn’t as
important in the past as it is today because, in the past, people often were
able to attend primarily to one major role in their life (for example, to working
in “the” company or housekeeping), rather than to several (for example,
to the current employer and one’s career and being a mother and being happy
as an individual). Organizations are recognizing that, to cultivate and support
productive employees, the organization must assist employees to learn how to
achieve and maintain suitable work-life balance.

Test – How Well Is Your Work-Life Balance Now?

People might think they’re doing fine, only to realize that they are spending
far more time in their work and far less time for themselves and their family.
Take this short test to get some perspective on your own life.

Is
Your Work-Life Balance Healthy?

Based on the results of that test, you might consider the many suggestions
in the following articles.

Various Perspectives on Work-Life Balance

09/16/96
BALANCING WORK AND FAMILY

Self-Assessment
Test of Work-Life Stress
Leadership
Knowledge Base: Information to Improve Your Leadership Skills.

How to Fix Misunderstandings at Work and
in Life

Work Family
Connection Home Page

Families
at Work – Our Home Page

Balance work, family issues to boost productivity
— 1998-03-30

Work Family
Connection Home Page

Families
and Work Institute

The
Work Life Balance Foundation

Coaching
Tip — A Different Way to View Work-Life Balance

Do You Spend Too Much Of Your Life At Work?
Want Balance? Here’s How to Make that Resolution
Stick

Why It’s Better to Be Green Than to Be Profitable
Take Back Control of Your Work (and Your Life)
Egocentricity and the Stages of Man
I’m Back: Making a Smooth Return to Work After an Absence

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Attitude
Authenticity
Awareness
Bullying
(Addressing)

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Intelligence

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Fitness

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and Inspiring Yourself

Personal
Development

Personal
Productivity

Physical
Fitness

Self-Confidence
Stress
Management

Workaholism

Thanks to www.accessmagazine.com for many of the following
links.
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Center for Infants, Toddlers and Families

Parentz
Channel


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Motivating and Inspiring Yourself (including by referencing quotes)

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Motivating and Inspiring Yourself (including by referencing quotes)

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How to Manage Your Own Motivation

Leaders are like everyone else. They must manage for balance in their lives and their work. If the leaders do not seem motivated, then other employees will probably not be motivated either. Therefore, leaders in the organization must give attention to managing their own personal motivation – and it can be managed.

1. Learn to delegate.

This is one of the most critical skills for a leader. Delegation involves assigning tasks to your employees along with the necessary authority and resources that they can learn to carry out the tasks in their own way. Assign the “what” and guide them to figure out the “how.”

2. Even if you do not like goals, set some goals, however small.

Without goals, you probably will not know if you are really accomplishing anything. Working hard is not necessarily an end in itself – especially if you expect your employees to do the same thing. Set some small goals. It will be good practice for you if you have not done that before. (If you do not like goals, then you are in for a major challenge in leading a business because, without goals, it is very difficult to give direction and measure success.)

3. Celebrate accomplishments.

Many hard-working people seem to believe that celebrating accomplishments is a form of complacency, that the job should be celebration in itself. Those beliefs can hold true maybe for the first couple years of the leader’s job. Then the grind gets old. It is critical for employees to recognize that they are accomplishing something – it is usually not enough to be continually “working for the cause.” Take time out to recognize what did get done and celebrate the accomplishments.

4. Ask for help.

It can be quite difficult for leaders to ask for help. Often, they are very passionate, hard-working people who want to be able to carry their own load. Thus, they are often reluctant to ask for help from others in the organization. This is a mistake, particularly for managers in the organization.

5. Find out what motivates you – it is not the same for everyone.

One of the most important learnings for new supervisors is that very different things can motivate different people. For example, some are motivated by money, others by security, others by having relationships, others by getting things done and others by getting recognition.

6. Get some direct contact with your customers.

Few things are as motivational as hearing from a customer how he/she benefited from the products or services of your business. Unfortunately, it is too easy for leaders to inadvertently become detached from providing direct service and to get lost in the management activities of the business. At least once a month, have a customer come to an employee-wide meeting and share his/her experiences with the business.

7. Post the mission of your business on the walls of all the rooms in your facilities.

It is amazing how many organizations give careful thought to the wording of their mission statements, and then file them away in file cabinets. Post your mission statement in all the rooms in your facility. Notice it each day. The mission statement depicts the reason that the business even exists.

8. Follow simple guidelines of time and stress management.

With a few simple steps, you can make a lot of difference in managing your stress, often by first addressing how you spend your own time.

9. Watch your diet. Get enough sleep.

Do not resort to lots of caffeine and sugar to give you a boost. Research shows that the boost is usually followed by a major let down in energy. It is better to get up for a short walk, get some protein and do some stretches. Also, it is interesting how bleak the world looks to people who do not eat right or do not get enough sleep. A little bit of the right kinds of food and more sleep can make the world seem a lot better.

10. Get some variety in your job.

Do not get lost in the “circle of paperwork.” Often, the only way that you will get variety in your work is to schedule it. Schedule time to provide direct services to customers. Schedule time to help clean out the storage closet.

11. Have personal goals.

Even if you have a few goals, at least those goals are in regard to your own development. Examples of goals might be to become acquainted with at least three other managers of organizations in your geographic area, or read a book a week, or even to start a hobby.

12. Get some professional development.

Go to a course. Join a professional networking organization. Read professional journals that relate to your services. Join a Speakers Bureau to share your knowledge.

13. Be sure that your job makes sense to you. Have an overall strategic plan.

One of the best outcomes from a strategic plan is that it helps to make sense of all of the work going on around people. People get some perspective and, thus, some meaning from their jobs.

14. Write status reports.

Status reports can be weekly reports that document what you have accomplished over the past week, any highlights and trends and issues that currently exist, and what you plan to do next week. One of the most important outcomes from this activity is the opportunity to stand back, think about your job, and notice that you are actually getting a lot done.

15. Understand Founder’s Syndrome.

This Syndrome can occur with almost anyone in the organization, not just the Founder. It is not unusual that the people who work the hardest in an organization (and are most prone to burnout) are also the people around whom all else seems to revolve. It is hard not to be the “hero” of the workplace, the person who gets everything done. Too often, this hero becomes the unintended villain when the organization succumbs to Founder’s Syndrome.

16. Know when to leave.

It may be that you and your job just have to part, that you are simply no longer motivated in your work. It is a wise leader who can recognize this and arrange for a healthy transition to a new leader.

Various Perspectives on Motivation

Quotes (inspirational, insightful, etc.)

The following were provided by Rey Carr of Peer Resources. He notes:

“Here is a summary of the various sources of quotes we use as well as those suggested by TRDEV members. Most of these are searchable, so you can use them to find an appropriate quote as well as locate the author of a quote. Many of these sources have an e-mail quote system where you can sign up to receive quotes on a regular basis. (Apologies to TRDEV subscribers who suggested a source, but I didn’t include it here.).”


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How to Build Your Self-Confidence: Numerous Guidelines and Resources

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How to Build Your Self-Confidence: Numerous Guidelines and Resources

© Copyright Carter McNamara, MBA, PhD

Sections of This Topic Include


What is Self-Confidence? Self-Esteem?

Self-confidence is being certain and trusting about yourself in regard to addressing certain tasks or all tasks. Self-confidence is a source of assertiveness, which is fully representing yourself (your opinions, recommendations, etc.) to others.

Research shows strong relationships between self-confidence and achievement, as well as surviving serious medical procedures. It also is associated with higher likelihood of survival from threatening medical situations.

People sometimes confuse self-confidence with self-esteem. Self-esteem is a one’s overall belief in their value as an individual, a human being. Thus, the concepts of self-esteem and self-confidence are closely related.

What is Your Self-Esteem Score?

Although self-confidence and self-esteem are not the same thing, they are closely related. Here is an online scale to give you some impression of the strength of your self-esteem.

Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale

What did you learn about yourself? What might you want to change? Consider some of the following suggestions about increasing your self-esteem.

How to Boost Your Self-Confidence

Research suggests that one of the best ways to boost self-confidence is to focus more on what you are good at and less on what you are not good at. However, that is easier said than to done — unless you focus on the behaviors that are good about you.

There are many ways to increase your self-confidence. With any of them, though, it requires practice. This is an ongoing process and not an event.

Here are some suggestions. You do not need to practice them all. More important than doing them all is picking some — and practicing them.

Caution: The following are not meant to be medical advice to treat depression. If you have ongoing and debilitating feelings of low-self worth, you should seek attention from a qualified mental health professional.

  • What does a self-confident person look like? What do they say? What do they do?
  • Imagine yourself being more confident, assertive and appreciated. What do you look like? What are you saying? What are you doing?
  • Make a list of the successes that you have had in your life. Post that list where you have to see it.
  • Imagine yourself surviving a rejection about something. For example, imagine someone telling you that your idea is not a good one. Then look at your list of successes again.
  • Practice a positive posture. For example, stand taller and sit up straighter than usual.
  • Help someone else do something you are good at. For example, sign up to tutor someone.
  • Once a week, do something that seems scary to you. For example, be the first to speak up in a group.
  • Polish your skills in public speaking. For example, sign up for Toastmasters, the organization that helps people build skills and confidence in public speaking.
  • Every morning, say at least one affirmation to yourself. For example, answer “I am good at doing ___”.
  • Stand up to being hurt, bullied or insulted. For example, say what they did that was an affront to you and how you felt. Know that the rest of the exchange is all about them and not about you.
  • Do one form of exercise each day. Exercise has been proven to release chemicals in your body that help you to feel better.
  • Sign up for a quote-a-day that shares inspirational messages. For example, sign up for Inspiring
    Quotes to Help You Get Through Your Day
    .
  • Use mindfulness to focus on the present, rather than on your feelings of low confidence. Mindfulness is about focusing on the present, for example, on what is going on around you.
  • Tell someone else about your lack of self-confidence. How did they react? What can you learn from them?

Numerous Guidelines to Build Your Self-Confidence

Additional Resources to Build Your Self-Confidence


Start an Informal Study and Support Group to Help You

It is often not enough merely to get some advice about what you should do in order to improve yourself. Otherwise, a lot of us who have needed to lose some weight would have already done that. For example, we already knew that we needed to cut back on calories and do more exercise.

Instead, it helps greatly for us to have some ongoing support and accountabilities to actually apply the advice that we are given. You can start an informal support group by gathering at least two other people who want to improve some aspect of themselves. Here are time-tested, straightforward guidelines for doing that.
Procedure to Start Your Own Study and Support Group


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How to Be More Adaptable and Resilient

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How to Be More Adaptable and Resilient

What is Resilience?
Career Resilience: How to Bounce Back From Challenges
Adaptability and Resiliency in Leadership
Test – How Resilient Are You?
How to Develop More Adaptability and Resilience

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What is Resilience?

Harold Cohen, PhD,
defines resilience in practical terms:

When faced with a tragedy, natural disaster, health concern, relationship,
work, or school problem, resilience is how well a person can adapt to the
events in their life. A person with good resilience has the ability to bounce
back more quickly and with less stress than someone whose resilience is less
developed.

Career Resilience – How to Bounce Back from
Challenges

Copyright, Marcia Zidle

“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t
work.” – American inventor, Thomas Edison

Edison, despite struggling with failure throughout his work life, never let
it get the best of him. He kept experimenting and learning. His resilience gave
the world the light bulb as well as these amazing inventions phonograph, the
telegraph, and the motion picture.

Do you have Edison’s resilience to overcome your challenges? Or do you
let your failures or missteps derail your dreams? In this post and the next,
I’ll examine resilience – what it is, why we need it, and how to
develop it – so that you have the strength to keep on moving forward towards
your goals.

The Importance of Resilience

Resilience is our ability to adapt and bounce back when things don’t
go as planned. Resilient people don’t wallow or dwell on failures; they
acknowledge the situation, learn from their mistakes, and then move forward.
According to the research of leading psychologist, Susan Kobasa, there are three
elements that are essential to resilience:

1. Challenge

Resilient people view a difficulty as a challenge, not as a paralyzing event.
They look at their failures and mistakes as lessons to be learned from, and
as opportunities for growth. They don’t view them as a negative reflection
on their abilities or self-worth.

2. Commitment

Resilient people are committed to their lives and their goals. Commitment isn’t
just restricted to their work – they commit to their relationships, their
friendships, the causes they care about, and their religious or spiritual beliefs.

3. Personal Control

Resilient people spend their time and energy focusing on situations and events
that they have control over. Because they put their efforts where they can have
the most impact, they feel empowered and confident. Those who spend time worrying
about uncontrollable events can often feel lost, helpless, and powerless to
take action.

In other words, resilient people:

  • Maintain a positive outlook, despite having just lost a promotion or getting
    turned down for a job. They don’t allow present circumstances to cloud
    their vision of themselves or their future.
  • Have solid goals in all parts of your life. This gives you a compelling
    reason to get out of bed in the morning.
  • Never think of yourself as a victim. – focus your time and energy
    on changing the things that they have control over.

It’s inevitable that at times we’re going to fail, make mistakes,
have setbacks and occasionally fall flat on our faces. The only way to avoid
this is to live a very sheltered life never trying anything new or taking a
risk. Few of us want a life or career like that!

See Part
2
of this article.

Adaptability and Resiliency in
Leadership

By Steve
Wolinski

Adaptability and Resiliency as Overlooked Leadership Qualities

In my mind the unsung hero of effective leadership are two related and overlapping
qualities: adaptability and resiliency. The ability and, probably more importantly,
the willingness of a leader to adapt his or her thinking, behavior, or strategy
based on changing circumstances, miscalculations, or other factors, is a historically
underrated quality that is starting to get its due in this rapidly changing
world. And maybe even more so than adaptability, resiliency — discussed
here as the capacity to bounce back from perceived and actual mishaps, set-backs,
and adversity — has been overlooked as a leadership competency.

Research on Resiliency

I recently read that Ceridian Corporation conducted a study and published an
executive briefing on organizational resilience. They arrived at the conclusion
that resilient organizations are those that are able to respond to two seemingly
paradoxical imperatives: 1) managing for performance (enhanced by consistency,
efficiency, and immediate results) and 2) managing for adaptation (enhanced
by innovation, improvisation, anticipation, and commitment to long-term benefits).

In my mind what is reflected here is a mindset that embraces disruption to
organizational plans, strategy, and operating procedures, as normal and inevitable.
The leader that maintains this mindset does not react with shock, dismay, or
confusion to disruption of the best laid plans. Instead, he or she is eager
to analyze the circumstances, ascertain the meaning behind the unexpected, and
determine whether there are appropriate adjustments to be made. In addition,
leaders demonstrating this type of leadership are able to build more resilient
direct reports, teams, and ultimately organizations.

Origins of Resiliency

It is the viewpoint of many psychologists and sociology experts that resiliency
is a quality that is partly inbred and partly developed through childhood experiences
and modeling. The problem with this viewpoint is that it presumes that a person’s
level of resiliency is pretty much set by the time they are in early to middle
adulthood. It is my opinion that a certain amount of resiliency – definitely
enough to make a difference as an organizational leader – can be developed
in adults simply by embracing a worldview that change, disruption, and mishaps
are as normal and predictable in organizations as salaries and vacation days.
Or perhaps it is more analogous with the sentiments I heard expressed by a veteran
of the Iraq conflict: “It is a given, no plan ever survives first contact”.

Test – How Resilient Are You?

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How Resilient Are You?

So how resilient are you? The articles in the following topic include suggestions
for becoming more resilient.

How to Develop More Adaptability and Resilience

The
Benefits of Being Adaptable
Why
Adaptability is Key to Success
Stay
Positive! Resilient and Adaptable Teams are Key to Business Success
What are Resilience
and Adaptability Skills
To
Increase Your Adaptability Make it Personal
Adaptability
in the Workplace: Strategies and Importance


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Attitude
Authenticity
Bullying
(Addressing)

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Cynicism
Emotional
Intelligence

Job
Satisfaction

Motivating
and Inspiring Yourself

Personal
Development

Personal
Productivity

Physical
Fitness

Self-Confidence
Stress
Management

Diversity
and Inclusion

Work-Life
Balance

Workaholism

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Your Physical Fitness

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Your Physical Fitness

Various Perspectives on Physical Fitness

WebMD
Hometown AOL: Health Wellness
Fitness
Jumpsite! Your connection to a lifestyle of fitness, nutrition,
and health.

Sleep Deprivation’s True Workplace Costs
Health-Connect.com
National
Institutes of Health — Health Information Index

Improve Your Fitness and Improve Your Coaching
Sleep Your Way to Success

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Introduction to Personal Financial Management

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Introduction to Personal Financial Management

Obviously, financial management is a critical function in organizations.
Successful leadership and management of others requires successful
leadership and management of oneself. Financial management is
a critical function in self-management.

Sections in This Topic Include

Basics of Personal Financial Planning
Evaluating Your Personal Financial Situation
Budgeting
Insurance Planning
Savings
Consumer Credit and Debts
Investing
Tax Planning
Retirement Planning
Estate Planning
Estimating Your Net Worth

General Resources

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Basics of Personal Financial Planning

Understanding
and Controlling Your Finances — The Basics

Understanding
and Controlling Your Finances — Incentives

Understanding
and Controlling Your Finances — Understanding Your Current Position

Understanding
and Controlling Your Finances — Gaining Control

Understanding
and Controlling Your Finances — Balanced Financial Life

Personal Financial Resources (geared toward investment
planning, but addresses basic questions)

DollarTimes:
Financial budget calculators useful for personal finance

Financial
Dictionary
contains articles about the most popular and commonly
used financial terms
The Power and Meaning of Money

Evaluating Your Personal Financial
Situation

Financial Fitness Test
Financial
Fitness as Physical Fitness!

Financial Fitness Test

Budgeting

How to Make a Budget and Stick to It
Budgeting
Tips

Budgeting 101 (free online course)

Insurance Planning

(disability, medical, life insurance, auto, home)

Basics and Planning

Auto
Insurance Basics

Home Insurance Basics
– – – Frequently Asked Questions
Disability
Insurance

Top 25 Health Insurance Companies

Savings

66 Ways to Save Money
75 Painless Money-Saving Tips
free newsletter with many ideas

Consumer Credit and Debts

Money: 9 Tips to Avoid Overspending
Rebuilding Credit FAQ
Loans
— Getting

Investing

Investing 101
Frequently
Asked Investment Questions

Glossary of
Financial Terms

101 Ways to Save Money

Tax Planning

Tax
Planning Guide

Start Planning Now for Next Year’s Taxes
Tax Planning Basics

Retirement Planning

Retirement Planning Basics
another
view of retirement planning

11 Retirement Realities You Need to Know

Estate Planning

Estate Planning Basics
Estate
Planning — An Introduction

Estate Planning Forms

Estimating Your Net Worth

Net
Worth Calculator

How Much Are You Worth?


General Resources

Massive Personal Finance Resource List
Financial
Planning Toolkit
MoneyRates.com
List of Articles

Tools & Financial Calculators


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Perhaps the Most Important Self-Practice Today: Mindfulness

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Perhaps the Most Important Self-Practice Today: Mindfulness

© Copyright Carter
McNamara, MBA, PhD

Sections of This Topic Include

What is Mindfulness?

Why Is It So Important Today?

Test – How Mindful Are You?

How Do You Practice It?

Additional Aspects of Personal Wellness


What is Mindfulness?

The editorial staff of the Mindful magazine define mindfulness this way: “Mindfulness
is the basic human ability to be fully present, aware of where we are and what
we’re doing, and not overly reactive or overwhelmed by what’s going
on around us.”
What is Mindfulness?

This definition is written in Psychology Today: “Mindfulness
is a state of active, open attention on the present. When we are mindful, we
carefully observe our thoughts and feelings without judging them as good or
bad .. It means living in the moment and awakening to our current experience,
rather than dwelling on the past or anticipating the future.”
What is Mindfulness?

As usual, Wikipedia gives us a comprehensive and yet specific explanation of
mindfulness.
Mindfulness

What
Is Mindfulness? Nobody Really Knows, and That’s a Problem

Why Is It So Important Today?

It is ironic that, in trying to calm the very hectic pace of our lives — in
trying to feel more serenity in our lives — we do that by adding yet more things
to do: reading more self-help articles, taking more classes, and undertaking
even more stressful diets and exercises. Yet, for believers in mindfulness,
the “answer” to finding more serenity is in just not trying to find
it. It is in just noticing what’s around us now without a lot of thinking about
it. Practitioners of mindfulness have found that living in the present is much
more serene and satisfying as constantly living one step ahead of yourself.

They have also found that they get just as much — if not more — done in their
lives and what they get done is often more important, than just urgent. But
most of us are not at all receptive to a practice that is so contrary to what
we’ve been taught and how we’ve lived our lives so far. Without knowing it,
we’re doing that old adage of working harder, rather than smarter; of doing
the same thing over and over again, and of expecting different results each
time.

For too many of us, we realize that insight only after suddenly suffering a
significant physical ailment. Yet, we believe that “solutions” to
complex problems have much have complex solutions. Or, at least, they must come
from experts, certainly not from ourselves — and they should be darn expensive,
as well.

For some countries and cultures, they have practicing mindfulness, especially
through the form of meditation, for millennia. Much longer than our country
was formed. Perhaps they learned the practice through frustration, confusion
and pain like many of us are experiencing today. Yet today, research continues
to show the benefits of more mindful approaches, such as meditation and eastern
practices such Tai Chi and Yoga — practices you can understand and do with
yourself or with others.

Test – How Mindful Are You?

Take this mindfulness quiz.

Mindfulness
Quiz

Based on the results, you might consider the suggestions in the following articles.

How Do You Practice It?

Mindfulness
is not a fad. Try it.
How
to Practice Mindfulness (The Ultimate Guide to Being More Mindful Throughout
the Day)
How
to Practice Mindfulness: A Beginners Guide

7
Easy Ways to be Mindful Every Day
Five
Simple Mindfulness Practices For People Who Hate To Meditate
Mindfulness
exercises
Top
10 Difficulties in Mindfulness Practice and How to Overcome Them

Yet, it’s important to see both sides of the mindfulness practices.
The Problem with
Mindfulness
The
Little-Known Downsides of Mindfulness Practice
Is
Mindfulness Making Us Ill?


Additional Aspects of Personal Wellness

Also consider
Assertiveness
Attitude
Authenticity
Awareness
Bullying
(Addressing)

Cynicism
Emotional
Intelligence

Financial
Fitness

Job
Satisfaction

Motivating
and Inspiring Yourself

Physical
Fitness

Self-Confidence
Stress
Management

Work-Life
Balance

Workaholism


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Spirituality in
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Job Satisfaction

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Job Satisfaction

Sections of This Topic Include

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What is Job Satisfaction?

Job satisfaction is in regard to one’s feelings or state-of-mind regarding the nature of their work. Job satisfaction can be influenced by a variety of factors, eg, the quality of one’s relationship with their supervisor, the quality of the physical environment in which they work, degree of fulfillment in their work, etc.

(To my knowledge, there is no strong acceptance among researchers, consultants, etc., that increased job satisfaction produces improved job performance — in fact, improved job satisfaction can sometimes decrease job performance. For example, you could let someone sit around all day and do nothing. That may make them more satisfied with their “work” in the short run, but their performance certainly won’t improve.)

Measuring Job Satisfaction

It is extremely important for leaders and managers to support their employees to remain highly satisfied in their jobs. However, job satisfaction is such a highly subjective measure. How do you measure it?

There are a variety of approaches, including satisfaction surveys, performance review discussions and exit interviews. The better the relationship between the supervisor and employee, the more honest the employee will be in sharing his or her opinion about how they feel about their jobs. Here are some additional perspectives.

Also consider

Helping People to Motivate Themselves and Others

Career Satisfaction: Do You Have It?

© Copyright Marcia Zidle

Do you “work to live or live to work”?

In a recent Leading News, e-newsletter, from Marshall Goldsmith, the premier executive coach, asked that question. Why? Because if you figured how time you spent at work – approximately one-third of our waking hours – then you realize that your job has a significant impact on your life.

He created an exercise to help people evaluate their job satisfaction and, mostly importantly, their career choice. There are three categories and you are to estimate the percentage of your job that falls within each category.

You Try It.

The first category is “play.” This is job content that is fun and what you would tend to do regardless of whether or not you were compensated for it. We have all seen people readily agree to do a task that was beyond the job description. Why? Because it was a task they viewed as fun, as an outlet for untapped creativity or a channel for self-development. If I tell myself, “I’m going to play,” then there is no resistance or creative avoidance.

The second category is “work.” This is job content that is not play. It’s work. This is an activity that, although not fun, you would agree to do for reasonable compensation.

The third category is “misery.” Job content in this category is not only not play, but it is drudgery, and at times pure h-ell. And we can find all times of creative reasons to avoid and procrastinate.

How do you see the composition of your work experience concerning activities that are categorized as play, work, and misery? Do you need to write yourself a new job description?

Here are the typical survey results among professionals:

15 percent of what professionals do is considered play;
75 percent of what professionals do is considered work;
10 percent of what professionals do is considered misery.

Career Success Tip

Most professional jobs can be molded or shaped to allow for individual situations or for one’s growth and development needs. Think about ways to add things to your job that will allow you to play more or take some things out that will allow you to be more satisfied. Then go to your boss and make a case for it – not that it will make you happier but that it can add to your productivity.

Job Satisfaction: Is it Time to Stay or Leave?

© Copyright Marcia Zidle

Have you lost that “loving” feeling?

You’ve survived the layoffs, cut wages, reorganizations and other company changes. You’re stressed out, fed up and ready to bolt.

On the other hand, the economy is going nowhere, the analysts aren’t sure if we’re in recovery, recession or something in-between and you’re being told “you have a job, be happy.”

So, should you stay or leave? Before you make that critical career decision, take a deep breath, assess your situation and do a cost benefit analysis.

First, consider the reasons to stay. For example:

1. Relationships matter more than money.

You may think you can find a job that will pay you more, but you will be leaving behind a wealth of relationships. When weighing your options, don’t forget the value of the network, the friends and professional colleagues you have now.

2. You are doing well compared to your peers.

Research shows that many people under estimate their skills and their prospects and over estimate others. Take the time to do a realistic assessment of what you have to offer and its value in today’s marketplace.

3. The grass is not always greener.

People, who are desperate to get out of a job, tend to see potential opportunities only outside their company. They enthusiastically take a new job and then realize they’ve gone from the proverbial frying pan into the fire.

Now, consider the reasons to leave. For example:

1. Your relationship with your boss is damaged beyond repair. You have tried to mend it but you’re getting stonewalled. Yes, she may be a jerk but she is the boss and in a power struggle, you will probably lose.

2. Your values are at odds with the culture. For example, your company is hierarchical and you want more influence over your job. It’s very hard for one person to change a culture unless he’s the CEO or has been brought in to change things.

3. Your stress level is way off the charts. It’s affecting your physical or mental health and your relationships with family and friends. You’re burnt out, burnt up and dread going to work.

So what will it be – stay or leave?

In looking at the reasons to stay and the reasons to leave, which will have the best impact on your personal and career satisfaction? What will provide you with the most benefit today? What about tomorrow?

Various Perspectives on Job Satisfaction

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General Resources


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Personal Wellness

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How to Improve Your Personal Wellness: Guidelines and Resources

Sections of This Topic Include


What Has Personal Wellness Got to Do With Managing?

There is an old adage that “You can’t lead anyone else unless you first can lead yourself.” If you are struggling personally — physically, emotionally, spiritually or mentally — then you cannot give your full attention and energy to your job. Instead, much of your being is spent on taking care of yourself, whether you are aware of it or not. That is why many organizations are offering courses in well-being as part of their overall support to their employees.

There are many aspects to personal wellness. Fortunately, there are also many guidelines and resources to help you in your own development. Research shows it is most effective to develop a personal wellness plan and then get help to implement the plan.

What is Personal Wellness?

People used to consider wellness to be just the absence of physical illness. However, as we have learned more about the many other aspects that can affect our happiness, joy and meaning in our lives, that definition has changed. The National Wellness Institute writes ” … there appears to be general agreement that:

  • Wellness is a conscious, self-directed and evolving process of achieving full potential
  • Wellness is multidimensional and holistic, encompassing lifestyle, mental and spiritual well-being, and the environment
  • Wellness is positive and affirming”

The Institute specifies that there are six dimensions to wellness including:

  1. Emotional
  2. Occupational
  3. Physical
  4. Social
  5. Intellectual
  6. Spiritual

The Institute advocates a holistic approach to improving one’s well being.

Take a Personal Wellness Inventory

Before developing a wellness plan, it is useful to get some “objective” perspective on the condition of your personal wellness. You might take one or both of the following private tests.

What did you learn about your wellness? What do you want to do about it? It helps to list your goals in a personal wellness plan. Consider the guidelines and samples in the following sections.

Develop Your Personal Wellness Plan

Guidelines

You might start with the guidelines in the following articles.

If you are interested in getting an even broader context about well-being, here is a comprehensive manual to follow.
Personal Health Plan Manual

Sample Wellness Plans

Now you might list some of the aspects of your well-being that you want to improve into an overall plan. Consider the following examples.

Various Perspectives on Wellness

Here are some additional perspectives on well-being — some focus more narrowly on certain aspects, while others are more broad.


Numerous Additional Resources Related to Personal Wellness

Each of the following Library topics includes numerous resources in specific aspects of well-being.


Start an Informal Study and Support Group to Help You

It is often not enough merely to get some advice about what you should do in order to improve yourself. Otherwise, a lot of us who have needed to lose some weight would have already done that. For example, we already knew that we needed to cut back on calories and do more exercise.

Instead, it helps greatly for us to have some ongoing support and accountabilities to actually apply the advice that we are given. You can start an informal support group by gathering at least two other people who want to improve some aspect of themselves. Here are time-tested, straightforward guidelines for doing that.
Procedure to Start Your Own Study and Support Group


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