Five Ways to be a Super Communicator

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Quick—who is the most effective communicator you know? Why did you think of that person? I am guessing that this person provides a consistently positive experience when they communicate with you. Let’s think about the experience you provide when someone comes into contact with you. It doesn’t matter if they work in the next cubicle, if they know you socially, or if you are meeting someone for the first time. With a few simple guidelines, you can make each contact a positive experience.positive

Pick the right time. When do you initiate the communication? If you are waiting on people, sooner is better. Acknowledge or greet people who show up in your place of business, even if you can’t help them immediately. Otherwise, find times that are amenable to others; be it your boss, a potential client, a family member. Ask if this is a good time before launching into a discussion they might not be ready for.

Pick the right venue. Recently I traded four or five text messages with someone before deciding we could get more done on the phone. Today I received a much-appreciated phone call rather than an email with a request. Other times e-mail is actually the best way to convey information. Instead of automatically choosing the format that you prefer or feel most comfortable with, start thinking about which one is most appropriate or most appreciated by the receiver.

Be courteous. Please and thank you never go out of style. Say “you’re welcome” rather than “no problem.” Look people in the eye. Take time to greet everyone you come in contact with. Be kind to your server (and leave a generous tip if you can afford it.) Don’t slam down the phone after leaving a message or having a conversation.

Give your full attention. Whether you are discussing world events, a major initiative for your team, or plans for the weekend, respect people enough to be attentive to them. This means no checking your email while talking on the phone, no folding laundry or making dinner while the kids tell you about their day, or no talking while driving. I know, I know, we all do it. Let’s do better.

Be positive. It is easy to gripe about the weather, the boss, or what is on the news. Can you spin it around and look for the positive? Plenty of studies are now suggesting that gratitude is linked with higher levels of happiness, and we know we like to be around happier people. Focus on what you can do, not what you can’t. Find something nice to say. Be the bright spot in a gloomy day. You can’t control the weather or what’s on the news, but you have a choice in how you show up.

It is not rocket science. It just takes awareness and making better choices. Follow these five guidelines and you may well be one of the best communicators your friends and colleagues know.

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I would love to hear from you. How do you show up as a positive communicator?

Author Gail Zack Anderson, founder of Applause, Inc. is a Twin Cities-based consultant who provides coaching and workshops for effective presentations, facilitation skills for trainers and subject matter experts, and positive communication skills for everyone. She can be reached at gza@applauseinc.net.

Web site: www.applauseinc.net

Blog: www.managementhelp.org/blogs

twitter: @ApplauseInc

Architecting

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Communicating the definition of architecting or ‘to architecture’ can be defined in software and technically as what is to be set up. It is the building of a configuration or an arrangement of objects; a structure.

In the software/ technical world, designing and documenting the architecture of a system is composed of planning, describing, and displaying the different relationships of various items making up the system. In other words, the architecture of any system is broken down into its components and shows how all the pieces are associated, connected, or joined (as in data modeling). In documenting the system, it is not only detailing the make-up of the system, but also includes procedures, methodology, events, actions, etc.

Many skills are required to produce an effective and valuable functional architecture. When we build an architecture, we need:

  • to collaborate among our coworkers,
  • have great communication skills, and
  • most importantly, be organized.

Without these skills, informative technical and requirement specifications, business assessments, review processes, etc. cannot be completed for the architecture.

Also, guidelines need to be set before an architecture can be built. Building an architecture (even of a document) is not easy. We can think of a pyramid or a hierarchy. In so doing, do we work from the top down or the bottom up? Do we start at the top and know what you want to end up with or do you start from the bottom up and know what you have and try to build what you want from what currently exists? It is a difficult choice and each organization has to make up its own mind and decide on what fits them best.

To help the decision process along the way, and to, e.g., help the technical writer build on the architecture of a document, here are some questions in random order:

  • What is to be the end result
  • What ideas, resources, etc. do you have to get to the end
  • Whom can you rely on for support
  • Do you have the knowledge and skills to perform the task
  • Do you have the tools to create the document
  • Whom can you get details from
  • Whom are you writing for
  • How is the document to be organized
  • Where is your information located
  • Is cost a major factor
  • What are the future plans

Think about how you will begin the document. To help, try to number the items above by priority and see what works best for the organization. Only then will you know if you will be working from the top down or bottom up. As noted, the above example can also be applied when designing an architecture of a system. There are many more questions that need to be answered. The above is just a beginning.

How would you define architecting and what experiences and solutions have you had in architecting a, e.g., document?

Listen up: Take this Listening Quiz

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earA few years ago I worked with an individual who came to me because she seemed to have trouble listening to her boss. As we spoke, it turned out she was anxious about remembering everything he said, and so she would furiously write copious notes as he spoke. But the anxiety and the distraction of writing did the opposite of what she intended; she actually heard and remembered less, not more. And the more that happened, the more stressed-out she felt and the less she heard. It was a vicious cycle.

We all know how important listening is. Right? But in today’s crazy-busy world of work—and home—we sometimes let stress and bad habits trip us up. Think about your own work relationships. If you are experiencing increased misunderstandings or interpersonal issues, it may be due to poor listening habits.

How will you know? One good start would be to use this checklist to see if you might have allowed a few of these poor listening habits to take root.

When listening, have you ever found yourself:

 Easily distracted?
 Daydreaming or multitasking?
 Thinking ahead of your response instead of paying attention?
 Assuming you understand when you may not?
 Mentally criticizing the speaker?
 Allowing emotions to interfere?
 Interrupting or talking over?
 Hearing only what you want to hear?
 Waiting for your turn to speak?

Which of these habits do you have and how can you change them? Take time today—right now—to commit to better listening skills.

How to build better listening habits:

Avoid distractions. Turn away from the computer and look at the person you are speaking to. On the phone, turn away from your work and focus on the person you are speaking to.

Monitor your own behavior. Make calm, steady eye contact with the speaker. Make sure you avoid checking your watch, tapping your pen, or anything else that might signal impatience.

Listen to the tone and nonverbals as well as the words. What is being said? Why is it important? Think about the entire message and the feelings that surround it.

If you find your attention drifting, gently pull it back to the speaker. You may have to do this multiple times. If you find you cannot concentrate, consider postponing the conversation until you are able to do it justice.

As leaders, it is easy to get distracted and busy. But in order to be effective in our work and our work relationships, we must remember to listen fully and effectively to what is being said. In the long run, it will save us time and trouble.

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I would love to hear from you. How do you remember to listen effectively even when under pressure?

Author Gail Zack Anderson, founder of Applause, Inc. is a Twin Cities-based consultant who provides coaching and workshops for effective presentations, facilitation skills for trainers and subject matter experts, and positive communication skills for everyone. She can be reached at gza@applauseinc.net.

Web site: www.applauseinc.net

Blog: www.managementhelp.org/blogs

twitter: @ApplauseInc

Training the “Educated” Consumer

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It’s not just cell phones and texting that has made for more strangers…

Do we educate the consumer or train those who do, or should that even be the case? Now, the rest of this article is commentary and reaction to that question, hopefully to give us all something to think about.

Anything you buy today you need to research on the internet and still you could buy an inferior product, but once it’s in your home, you still have to install it (obviously something technical), you have an army of “blogs, forums, FAQs, and expert communities” all ready and willing to help with sage advice.

Not only is the public in need of this army, but so are the companies, making these products and taking advantage to cut back on their support resources. Who wins? Surely not the public except out of necessity. I think this is an accurate picture of the way customer service is today. My question is: does it have to be?

Face to face customer service may be coming a thing of the past, but should it? When it does, we stop communicating and we stop caring about each other. More and more people become strangers.

The “educated” consumer? We are so “educated” that we have to research the quality of products by looking at consumer reviews before we buy them. Call me a old fashioned, but I’d like to think a product will last a reasonable amount of time and I shouldn’t have to buy an extended warranty to get enough life out of a product. Those blogs and forums, FAQs and expert communities that were mentioned, I believe, were the public’s answer to poor customer service, especially in this computer age of complex electronic products.

Customers were tired of calling the companies involved and not getting a satisfactory response. And, now companies are taking advantage. I get my answers there as well. I have always found it interesting that an employee of the company finds his or her way on the blog or forum and provides a solution or says the solution is coming out next month.

The problem is bigger than just customer service. The manner in how we deal with others has been affected as well. It’s not just cell phones and texting that has made us more strangers. The workers on the receiving end, even the retail end, are developing an attitude of “if you don’t like it or it doesn’t work, bring it back.”

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The workers on the receiving end, even the retail end, are developing an attitude of “if you don’t like it or it doesn’t work, bring it back.”

Most of us don’t remember when companies that made the products and the retailers who sold their products used to stand behind their products. That meant we trusted one another and we communicated so well we knew one another. Strange that a society that’s becoming overpopulated is becoming a society of strangers.

I was watching my fifteen-year-old son, Aidan, today as he helped me out on the computer. Nothing major I thought. I wanted to compress some audio files. I’ll play the part of a bragging parent today. For him it was child’s play, literally. He whipped out his laptop, pecked away, found a few free sites, and over-solved my problem (if that’s possible), and provided me with two linked podcast sites. I was amazed and commented that he really had found his calling, and he looked at me and frowned, “Dad, that’s way too easy. Kidstuff. You’ve got to be kidding.”

I wasn’t kidding. Here’s the part that matters to us. Do you know what’s hard for him? Talking to a stranger, or even someone he knows socially unless video games are involved. We hosted a German exchange student, Max, at the house. We expected Aidan and Max would be talking up a storm. Nope. Not in German anyway, which they both spoke. However, they both spoke the language of video games better.

Aidan is super bright–like genius bright, and at 15 he’s already into college-level physics, philosophy and the humanities. So, caring about society and people should be pretty high on his list. Is he shy? Is he a nerd.? You could say that. He prides himself on it. In fact, he’s a lot retro. He’s also sensitive for a boy his age. But all this has to do with isolation from a real lack of face-to-face communication, not shyness. We love it when he has an opportunity to be involved face-to-face.

It’s the same as the counter person or retail person who conducts business without caring what the customer thinks because that person doesn’t really exist in their world. Aidan doesn’t want any part of the world unless he creates it and I don’t think he’s alone. Don’t get me wrong. He’s a great kid, but he’s like so many others who are accepting the way things are. It’s not a phase we are going through. The devices will only get smaller, more complex and devious.

When I lived in Tokyo for a while, as crowded as it was (and still is), people lived in their own little space rarely recognizing their neighbors. People walk with their heads down in a perpetual bow. We are learning that here, too, while we keep our noses buried in our devices. Friends walk by and we text them. My daughter has two friends with her in the back seat. Silence except for clicking. How rude she is I’m thinking. I don’t know which is worse. The noise of three excited teenagers or the lack of social skills. Turns out they were talking to each other the whole time. Via text!

Our new toys and technology may have made the world more efficient in some ways, but some interactions in society still need a personal touch.

A good cook still checks on his or her food occasionally, never leaving anything to chance, or kitchen timers and unequal oven temperatures.

Hopefully, the holidays bring everyone together happily to socialize. Aidan was not so happy being dragged off for dessert at a friends house and stayed buried in a handheld video game for a time, but for the last hour, I think I saw it sitting on the sofa alone and he was sitting another room with people.

All is not lost. We have to keep reminding people to keep holding their heads up. For the most part, we are not a bowing culture. Not that there is anything wrong with that in itself–unless it is caused by oblivion–like that of an ostrich with its head buried in the sand or us with our heads buried in our devices.

Happy Socializing…er Training.

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Defining Use Cases And Workflow Diagrams

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Use cases and workflow diagrams are two essential practices or methodologies that will effectively demonstrate a functionality of a product. To understand their value, they have to be defined.

Use cases are a way to show how a user, consumer, or customer can utilize, or operate a product or application.

  • It systematically details the reason for the application; how it works to achieve the end result.
  • It is not a step-by-step or itemized listing of how to accomplish a task. Use cases have to be able to answer questions such as what are the tasks that have to be done and how deep into a program does the user have to go to accomplish the task.
  • Use cases are great for helping users work through an application.

Workflow diagrams on the other hand will display, model, or diagram a whole picture of a product or application process.

  • It can show you step-by-step how to accomplish a task. It is an image of what the product or application does as it works toward an end result.
  • It is like a road map showing you where you will end up if you take a particular route. These workflow diagrams can visually show the functionality of an application in an appealing manner. They are easier to see and understand, and are more entertaining visually than reading.
  • On an even higher scale, you can use or prototype a particular workflow diagram as a business model. The workflow diagram answers questions such as what is the scope, range, or possibilities of the application or product and what are the ‘what if’ scenarios.
  • Workflow diagrams are great for training and capturing the essential functions of an application or product.

Conclusion

Use cases are critical for completing tasks or having users work with an application or learning a process. But when detailing an application or process, workflows are better for showing their behavior.

Technical writers need to be able to distinguish the two methodologies and to know when to apply them. They need to be able to channel and harness their knowledge to create all of the above. There will be situations when both methodologies have to be applied to accomplish a task. For example, if the steps to complete a task are lengthy, then sometimes it is much better to give a good overview by first creating a use case for an example, then a workflow diagram and then maybe also include a flow chart as well listing very detailed steps that are involved. These types of situations show why it is important and valuable to know how to use the two forms of communication and to see the benefits of both methodologies.

If you have had to design use cases or workflow diagrams, what has been your experience? Is one better than another?

How to Make More Money

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Does Chris Brogan Know How?

I subscribe to Chris Brogan’s weekly newsletter. But he doesn’t really call it a newsletter. And it comes out every Sunday morning. First thing. That’s why I find it so intriguing. It’s not on a business day, so it’s more personal. He always uses my name in the first or second line. And he spends a moment connecting in conversation – consistently talking about the different teas he likes – is drinking now as we speak, or how we’re sitting down to have a relaxing moment to chat (except that we don’t get to talk.)

Chris positions himself as TRANSPARENT. That’s why when he sells something, it doesn’t really feel like he’s selling. He’s promoting himself in a way that doesn’t FEEL like promotion. In fact, he wants each and every one of us to feel that he’s accessible and trustworthy (I think we trust people when they disclose stuff about themselves and act in a humble way. That’s what Chris does.)

And when he started selling ads in his newsletter, he was totally upfront about it, even asking his readers where the best position is. Are they better placed at the beginning? At the end? Middle?

Chris promises to answer all emails. So I sent him one. And by gosh, he responded. Not only did he respond, but he thanked me for contacting him – twice! And he really truly IS transparent. Here is the list of disclosures on his website:

Chris Brogan’s Disclosures and Relationships

  • I am President and CEO of Human Business Works, a business design company.
  • I work for New Marketing Labs, LLC, a social marketing and media company, and the Pulse Network, as Entrepreneur in Residence.
  • I am co-Founder of PodCamp, an unconference series.
  • I have written for Entrepreneur Magazine
  • I write for SUCCESS Magazine
  • I have written for American Express OPENForum
  • I am an advertising partner for Federated Media. (Check there if you want to place ads with me).
  • I am on the Advisory board for Hubspot
  • I am on the Advisory board for IZEA
  • I am cofounder of Third Tribe Marketing (affiliate link)
  • I sometimes use Amazon Affiliate links to point to books I’ve reviewed.
  • I’m an affiliate for Premise (affiliate link)
  • I’m an affiliate for Screenflow (affiliate link)
  • I’m an affiliate for Aweber email service.
  • I’m an affiliate for Mark Dykeman’s Unstuck (ebook)
  • I use Skimlinks to monetize some product sales on this site.
  • I am an affiliate for the Genesis WordPress theme.
  • I am an affiliate for Hootsuite.
  • I am an affiliate for Fill Your Stadium.
  • I am an affiliate for 1automationwiz.com
  • I am an affiliate for Fear to Fuel
  • I am an affiliate for Chris Pearson‘s DIY Themes site for the Thesis WordPress theme.
  • I am an affiliate for Inmotion Hosting for sites other than chrisbrogan.com
  • I am an affiliate for the Standard WordPress theme.
  • I am an affiliate for Chris Garrett’s Guest Posting ebook.
  • I am an affiliate for Teaching Sells, from Brian Clark (Because I think the product is worth it).
  • I am an affiliate for Scribe SEO, also from Brian Clark (but am still getting the hang of using it).
  • I am an affiliate for Chris Guillebeau’s Empire Builder Kit, because he’s good people.
  • I am an affiliate for Rapid Videoblogging
  • I am an affiliate for Beyond Blogging (because I’m in the book).
  • I am a proud affiliate of Tourism Currents (because my friends Becky and Sheila put a lot of work into it).
  • My site hosting is sponsored by Rackspace Cloud (*and* I’m an affiliate for them, now).
  • I am an affiliate for The Biz Web Coach (Jim’s a friend)
  • I have occasionally put affiliate sales links in posts older than 10 days. If they are explicit ads for a specific product, they are products or services I endorse. Those links are explicit.
  • If they are Google Adsense, it’s whatever Google thought was relevant.
  • I took money for an ad from CEA
  • I took money for an ad from eBillMe
  • Pure Digital gave me a Flip video camera to review.
  • Nikon USA gave me a D60 to review (later to purchase).
  • Nikon USA gave me a D300s to review (so far).
  • Garmin sent me a Nuvi 200 to review (to be returned).
  • BatchBlue gave me an upgraded account to review.
  • FreshBooks gave me an upgraded account to review.
  • Saddleback Leather sent me a messenger bag to review.
  • Kodak sent me a Zx1 to play with, and then the new one .. forget the name.
  • Hanes paid for a trip to Walt Disney World for me to meet and talk to them about their products and efforts.
  • I am sent NUMEROUS books to review. I’ll only review the ones I like, unless I suspect you might like it, too.

This is quite a disclosure list! Did you notice all the affiliate relationships? He probably wouldn’t have them if they didn’t make him money. You know, in my opinion, all these things are working for him. And he’s willing to disclose much more.

Chris Brogan Human Business Works

How to Make More Money

So what does it have to do with Making More Money? Well, Chris’ newsletter this week is entitled, “How to Make More Money”. The very first line starts with: “I’m so happy, Lisa!” – remember, using my first name right away. But enough about that. Chris sells a course for folks who work hard online but don’t make the money they hoped to make. It’s called “Mastering the Digital Channel.”

Maybe it’ll help you make more money. Thank you, Chris. I hope it’s a cash cow for you, too.

For more resources, see the Free Management Library topic: Marketing and Social Media.

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Five Ways to Maintain Control During Meetings

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stopOnce you have a group talking, and conversations become lively, conflict and lack of control can eat up valuable group time. Here are five guidelines you can use to maintain control without becoming heavy-handed.

1. Set group rules early on. Let the group know everyone should have a turn to speak, and that no one will be allowed to dominate the conversation.

2. Manage side conversations. Make steady eye contact with those who tend to chat, stand closer to them, or use silence until the room becomes quiet. These “silent” techniques are often all you need.

3. Break a large group down into smaller ones for discussion. Give complete directions first, and then disperse into breakout groups. To signal small groups to return to the large group, dim the lights or sound a timer.

4. Manage conflict. Keep your own cool and allow conflict as long as it is leading to thoughtful discussions. Remind people of ground rules that state no personal attacks.

5. Use courteous language. Words such as “please” and “thank you” foster a climate of respect and cooperation.

Whether you are a trainer, presenter or leader, knowing how to lead and control a discussion is an important skill you can learn and practice, so that your listeners can learn effectively from one another.

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I would love to hear from you. How do you maintain control over discussions?

Author Gail Zack Anderson, founder of Applause, Inc. is a Twin Cities-based consultant who provides coaching and workshops for effective presentations, facilitation skills for trainers and subject matter experts, and positive communication skills for everyone. She can be reached at gza@applauseinc.net.

Web site: www.applauseinc.net

Blog: www.managementhelp.org/blogs

twitter: @ApplauseInc

Isn’t The Customer Always Right?

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You were given an example of poor customer service. Perhaps an explanation and discussion now will spark an idea for a training solution. That’s all there is to it.

This blog is divided into two categories: Training and Development and Customer Service. It was written for three reasons:

  1. I’ve trained in customer service as have many of you

  2. I’ve lived through many of its technological changes, (not improvements I said) as many of you, and finally,

  3. I’d like to see some new changes, including putting the personal touch back into customer service.

So, if you’re looking for a training solution, look no further. There you have it. Persuade employers not to take the simplest, most efficient technological route. The customer first mindset requires people to contact, as well as the right people to contact.

Customer service can make or break a company. It’s not so easy these days, with global, faceless conglomerates that frequently have so many happy customers in so many countries that the principals wouldn’t know who they were or care. The loss of one or two loyal customers is insignificant. As a result, excellent customer service isn’t all that important. It could be making a comeback thanks to social media. Instead of one person telling ten of his or her friends about disappointed rising customer expectations, we have one person telling hundreds, and hundreds telling hundreds. But that’s beside the point…

Technology has made it possible to make customer service easier and, in some ways, more efficient. Some argue that technology is ideal for making all customer loyalty easier and faster. Those are the people who want basic information but don’t want to talk to a real person and, oh, are probably computer savvy. I believe that technology is best for employers who want to provide cost-effective customer service while giving the impression of excellent service. According to their muddled definition of customer service, it does the job adequately.

Before automation, probably 90% of calls to call centers were for basic information questions that didn’t require a person to look up; an early example would be a bank teller and an ATM. We still use bank tellers if we need a more complex answer than the ATM provides. Of course, that is the most basic form of an automated system. 10% of those calls were more complicated and required a person to assist in resolving the issue; this is when you went into the bank to see the teller or someone else.

Customer service used to make or break businesses. It’s not so easy these days, with the worldwide, faceless conglomerates who often have so many customers in so many contries, the principals wouldn’t know who they were or care. The loss of one or two customers is no big deal. So customer service is not that important. Perhaps, it’s making a comeback with social media. Instead of one disappointed customer telling ten of his or her friends, we have one person telling hundreds, and hundreds telling hundreds. But that’s not important…

Technology has brought us a long way to making customer service easier, and in some ways, more efficient. Some would say technology perfect for making it easier and faster for all for all customers. Those people would be the ones who want to know basic information and don’t want to talk to a real person, and, oh, are most likely computer savvy. I would say technology is best for the employer who wants customer service to be cost effective while giving the impression of having great customer service. In corporate minds it does the job adequately, according to their mixed up definition of customer service.

Probably 90 percent of the calls that came into a call center before automation took over had to do with basic information questions that don’t need a person to look up; an early example would be a bank teller and an ATM. We still use bank tellers though if we have a more complex answer than is offered by the ATM. Of course, that is an automated system at its most basic. Ten percent of those calls were more complicated and needed a person to help resolve the issue; that would be when you went into the bank to see the teller or someone else.

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Advance to more sophisticated automated systems, where a human or human-like voice (the first ones were a little frightening) asks you what you need help with. We’ve all been there—some just to pay the bills. In some cases, a real person (a representative) will assist you, but only after you’ve jumped through a million hoops. Be thankful that you aren’t immobile, verbally or physically handicapped, or simply move more slowly or are less agile than you were 20 years ago, because you won’t be able to get help unless you can communicate with someone. Today’s online and automated phone customer service caters to people aged twenty to sixty. The rest can’t do it on their own.

It’s bad enough when the customer journey has done everything the machine has told him or her to do and none of the categories even comes close to what the question or concern is, and there’s no way to talk to a person unless you know the secret. If a customer complaints is particularly clever or savvy with these types of systems (practice helps, and we’re getting there), they can punch “0” and speak to a human. Not always, but occasionally. Customer satisfaction, on the other hand, is frustrated and angry by the time they speak with someone. They had been confused and mildly upset for about half an hour before that.

When customers get past Automaton Lucy, they are referred to the department after department, again and again, to repeat the same identification information in order to verify them as genuine customers on the account, the issue or question if it fits the pre-programmed model, only to be told there is nothing the Frequently Asked Questions spoken verbally can do.

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The customers request to speak with the manager due to poor customer service. “It’s company policy,” the manager says. I can do better. I can improve on a couple of things. It is a policy that allows the company thirty days to hold the customers’ money that they withdrew from their account in error; the fact that it was an error on the part of the company does not qualify for expedited service to refund the cash sooner.

Policy is the responsibility of the company, not the people. It is not a legal requirement. It is adaptable in that it can be bent, ignored, or applied on an individual basis. Is it bad for business to abuse it or not use it all the time? Is it there to benefit the company from the loopholes it creates? If it’s company policy to wait or hold something, it’s usually money in a bank account. Right. Interest.

What else is there to keep? Paperwork. Who wants to keep track of something like that? However, money is electronic and in our account, where it earns interest—especially when combined with a large amount of other money in the account.

What does that policy entail? It is never explained, nor are the expedited service rules. No, but this particular case, which took a week to investigate, does not meet the criteria for expedited service. What exactly does expedited service entail? Let us see… a phone call. We don’t use phones much anymore in business. It’s most likely an email. Make a payment to so-and-so. Here’s the account number and balance. Remember how the folder had been sitting on his or her boss’s desk for a week without being expedited?

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(1)The real problem here is that policies are not laws. My wife is a lawyer who also happens to be the chief of a police department. She would understand the difference between a policy and a law. For that matter, I would as well.

The slick company’s customer service is the best—it is the most efficient, and Marc Antony’s speech about Brutus being an honorable man is also accurate. Calling customers back in record time by several different customer service agents to give them the same answer and argue with them over a policy point to demonstrate your company’s responsiveness does nothing but enrage them. Especially when a customer support team policy does not count for customer retention. The old adage that if a customer is treated poorly, he will tell ten of his friends no longer applies. The involvement of customer interactions in social media can multiply those numbers exponentially. And if they have a popular blog. Oops.

Who gives good

Who nowadays provides good customer service? Businesses that live and die by word of mouth, successful retail stores, restaurants—particularly good servers in the United States—who make the majority of their money on tips, virtually any successful mom-and-pop business that relies on face-to-face commerce, and large successful corporations and businesses that understand that people are the reason they exist. Some of the obvious ones, such as Disney, USAA, Ben and Jerry’s, and motion picture studios, have probably always done it because the customer factor is right in their face.

Who doesn’t understand? Multinational corporations, large businesses, and small businesses (yes, ordinary businesses and some mom-and-pop shops) that prioritize the bottom line do not. There are also compartmentalized businesses in which one part of the company is unaware of what the other is doing. They’ve become disoriented. They risk jeopardizing their bottom line because they have forgotten about their customers. Some devoted customers even purchase stock. Some people change their minds.

There are those bottom-feeder companies that have salespeople rush measure-quality-customer-experience people to buy products or services in order to get rich. When something goes wrong, they have little flexibility and use policy to get their way, hoping to appease customers with their slick “we’ll get back to you immediately” form of customer service; they use “policy” liberally to resolve most customer service problems, effectively making it the customers’ fault.

My job as a customer service regional representative for five states and the District of Columbia was to “assist” state offices where customer service team efforts had failed, or so the customer empathy thought. And my boss expected me to solve the problem whether the customers were positive or negative. It was my responsibility to be the voice of reason with the support teams.

With no real power to make changes to a client’s case as is the case with most customer service people at that level, I had to hand it off to someone who did. To work with my counterparts in the “company” and the client, I had to use–what’s that word: charisma? I say it in all modesty, of course. The penthouse executives regarded the

With no real authority to make changes to a client’s case, as most customer service representatives do at that level, I had to delegate it to someone who could. To collaborate with my colleagues in the “company” and the client, I needed—the what’s word?—charism? Of course, I say it modestly. The customer with a problem was regarded as an annoyance and an unpredictability by the penthouse executives. Is what happened to the customer always correct? That could solve the problem almost every time without a hitch.

The state and local reps didn’t work for me because I was a regional rep. As a result, the job had a double-whammy effect on me. I had to research a problem that other customer service representatives had already researched, ask my contacts at the State level (perhaps they are slightly higher than the State reps themselves), and provide an answer to clients; if nothing else could be done, I still had to find out why. As I previously stated, policy alone was insufficient. I was frequently asked to explain why the state of national office had that policy. That was sometimes enough, but most of the time when a policy affects someone personally, and customers deserve it, the policy is still just a policy for the convenience of the company, with room for exceptions.

What I could do was get my company’s president or the national rep to speak with the program’s state representatives. Sometimes the mere mention of that action resulted in an exception, other times it did not. Charisma was important. One could hope that my charges liked me more than they feared the unknown. I prefer to imagine the former. Unless the customers’ problem with us is so serious that it warrants extensive media coverage, I doubt my company’s president or even one of her significant vice presidents would have gotten directly involved in the first place.

Unfortunately, the rooms at the top are frequently focused on money columns rather than people’s needs. I frequently developed relationships with clients because I tried numerous avenues; not that others hadn’t done the same; however, I was the end of the road for them. If it was a money problem or a problem that caused a lack of funds at a critical time, I was attempting to solve a problem that had a significant impact on their lives.

We appear to have lost sight of the true definition of customer service and what our interactions with customer expectations mean to us. My training question is, who told them that customer service was only about saving money and giving answers—to hell with customers? I’m not sure, and I’m not interested. I’d kick some butt over it if I could.

Be truthful. Don’t you despise automated customer service phone lines or being directed to a company website (some now have chat groups) when you have a complicated real-world question? Sometimes the only way out of the automation prison is to hang up the phone. Otherwise, you’ll go round and round. Bottom line: a machine cannot change an answer that you have already received, such as a billing problem. In any case, not yet. If you read one of my recent blogs, you might see it in the near future.

Customers not only define our products, but they also define how we conduct business and, in some cases, whether we continue to exist. The latter was more prevalent in smaller businesses. They don’t now, but they should. If only customers could go viral…

Happy Training.

For more resources about training, see the Training library.

For more on Jack Shaw, check his home site, where you can find access to other publications, including a fantastic novel called, Harry’s Reality.

Slick Customer Service Doesn’t Mean It Works

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We all know bad customer service when we see it. It makes us frustrated and angry. It’s been known to ruin days, weeks, months, years, holidays–even Christmas. I’ve got a story to illustrate what I mean.

This story is true. I won’t use any names in order to protect the individuals involved. I will, however, give “honorable mention” to the companies that deserve it–good or bad.

A friend and his wife, Bob and Carol, were approached by the same company company that holds their current mortgage, Green Tree Servicing: Home Loan Services, Mortgage Modification. The original mortgage had been held by an online bank, USAA: United Services Automobile Association. The online bank has a huge exclusive membership for veterans, military members and dependants, and are the good guys in the story. I suspect the couple was approached by Green Tree as they were by many refinancing companies because the couple had never missed a mortgage payment, despite having tight resources, even after Bob retired from the government. Ironically, Green Tree owned the loan now.

measure-quality-customer-experienceGreen Tree offered lower interest rates, which would have been more tempting had the couple’s taxes on their house not been so high. Bob and Carol filled out the paperwork post haste because they were getting ready to take the family on a long-awaited cruise–one that had been over a year in the planning.

In filling out the paperwork, the couple spotted a red flag. One document stated that if the closing took place by such and such date, the couple were locked at particular interest rate, but the company would not be locked in at that rate after a later date. It sounded as if the couple, with no control of the closing date, were still bound to take the loan if Green Tree could manage the closing by a certain time that the company was not bound by the locked in rate the couple had agree. The company refused to budge or re-write the paper. Although it sounded fishy, but since no mortgage would take place without their signature on other documents signed at closing, the paperwork went forward.

Green Tree, the refinancing arm, through its broker, did some other fishy things in asking Bob and Carol to find the original paperwork from USAA that sold the initial mortgage to Green Tree. But they already had the mortgage. Yes, the old mortgage was owned by the same company that wanted to refinance it. Bob called the bank. USAA as much as said, “That’s absurd. That information had been sent and submit to Green Tree at the time of the previous and that Green Tree would have to pull it themselves. The customer could ask Green Tree for it. Okay, maybe lazy or slick, but not totally fishy. Just a bit much to ask.

This, however was not the big problem. It was the beginning of an unhappy customer service relationship with Green Tree. Of course, what did the care care after the deal was done? Compartmentalization. The only person who had any face-to-face with the couple was the closer hired from out Green Tree. It seemed the company distanced itself as far as possible from the customer.

cruise1Understanding their financial situation was tight, and needing cash for the cruise and bills automatically paid while they were gone, Bob and Carol asked the broker numerous and questions on the phone to ensure that there would be cash in their account in November. The mortgage broker said, “No problem, we’ll take care of you with no costs at closing, and no November mortgage payment. So you’ll be all set for your cruise.”

Bob called his bank before they left on the cruise to ensure a mortgage payment wasn’t expected to be received by the bank and it wasn’t. As far as he and the bank were concerned he did not have an automatic payment through his bank on the old or the new as yet. And, this is all happening a day or two within closing and the trip.

Papers all signed October 30 or 31st. November 1st: Day of the flight to Florida to catch the cruise, Carol goes to buy some necessities for the trip and get cash. Her card is turned down and account frozen. The mortgage payment came out, as well as all the extra expenses in preparation for the cruise that had been spent, thinking that money would be there, including the money for dog sitter.

Thanks to Green Tree, Bob and Carol’s rest of the day before their vacation could only be characterized by two words: it sucked. Not only was there a mad scramble to get all the packing done, there were extra phone calls to be made, extra problems to be solved and a somewhat unrelated event, one of the dogs appeared to have seizures. Fortunately, the dog sitter, who had vet technician experience, was available to come early and see the dog was looked after and treated. The trip plan was to leave right after the kids came home from school. As it was, they barely made it to the airport on time. Bob and Carol found out after the cruise that the check for their dog sitter who came to their aid in an emergency bounced.

Before they left Bob called the bank again and discussed the situation. The bank agreed to unfreeze the account, move savings and extend their debit card limit so they could have some cash. The bank even said, he could stop payment, which would allow time for an investigation, but was really a delaying measure. The damage had already been done. USAA note the problem in the account and when it was all over would remove all bank charges for overdrawn checks, etc. The bank didn’t have to do that, or even believe the couple’s situation, but it did; USAA had a lifelong customer.

Carol called Green Tree. No answer. No machine. She went to the web site and found a comment section for customer service and aired her concerns and displeasure with what had happened.

Fortunately she had used other credit cards for purchse, ship costs, etc; she wanted to use cash for any excursions or souvenirs. The cash the family had left was quite limited, therefore, their activity off-ship was limited by the uncertainty of their account.

Upon return from probably not the best vacation they had ever had, there was one call from Green Tree with a message saying the company would look into issue (this from the comment section and get back to the couple as soon as possible. The next day in the mail. They received a letter that stated that since there were no unusual circumstances (not defined) to warranted it the company would return the mortgage amount via check 30 days from the day of the erroneous withdrawal.

kester_people-are-corporationsBob called Green Tree customer service after receiving the letter, since it was the company’s error, and was told it is policy to hold the checks. Customer service’s respond: he was being rude, to be quiet and let them finish telling him the same “standard language” he had heard before. But he hadn’t called anyone names or threatened anyone so they didn’t hang up. He did hang up. Later that evening, customer service called again with a different voice but the same answer: It is policy. He hung up on that phone call, too. And, Bob’s not a hang up the phone kind of guy.

It’ll be an interesting Christmas for Bob, Carol and family as they get their finances back in order. They’ll continue living, where not only taxes are high, but also mortgages. They’ll survive. They won’t have to go homeless. Others don’t have it so well. It’s still sad to think that this company because it was “responsive” however late, thinks that it’s customer service is great. I was a hands-on customer manager as well as a trainer; there are exceptions for policies. This might have been a good time for one. Bob told one of his ten, me, and I’m telling you.

Responsive and slick doesn’t equate to good customer service. USAA is a big company, possibly bigger than Green Tree and a customer has to jump through many security hoops to get through to a person, but when you do, they’ll even call the customer back. The company gets great marks for being people-oriented. Personally, I still hate jumping through the hoops like anyone else, but banks like USAA are safeguarding my money, so it’s necessary; I’m still a person. By the way, I almost forgot something very important. No one in Bob and Carol’s customer service contacts said, “I apologize for the mistake,” or “I’m sorry that happened to you.” The latter even takes the blame off the company.

Earlier before the trip, Carol had left a furious message for the broker, which he could have ignored; his job was done. He hadn’t received until the couple and family left. He called back and said, “I apologize for the mix-up. I don’t know how it happened. I am so sorry this happened to you. Are you going to be alright? I want to see if I can fix this.” And he promised to do what he could, but it was a big company, he admitted, and it was hard to get to the right people. Oh, so true.

Bob and Carol, who had already been through corporate hell. Bob answered for the both of them and said: thank you for just say acknowledging us. I doubt the company will change their mind, but if the couple can get the check earlier that would help, but what’s done is done.

Had Green Tree been a bank, they would have withdrawn all their funds and moved on. Another business would lose their business. The perceive fishy business in the beginning was forgotten all with a thank you. Recognizing the difficulty the situation caused so close to a vacation, where no one would be reachable, and followed by the holidays was survivable for Bob and Carol who had lived on the edge before. It would be unconscionable for someone with less means to juggle credit cards and recover financially.

So, while we train world class customer service, let’s not forget the basics. It’s not about cost cutting. It’s about serving customers. We make products they told us they need and not to cancel. We develop and provide services they want. We refine all of the above based on their feedback. Do we want to throw it all away. Without customers, businesses die and without businesses, we die.

Remember, policy is not a law. Policy can be bent or exceptions made. It’s not like a customer who needs an exemption is going to go tell everyone and make the company go broke; it’s one happy customer who’s going to say good things.

Put people who care about people back in customer service.

  • Customer service reps are champions of the people.
  • A customer service representative is a company ambassador who always puts his or her best side forward.
  • Customer service reps are problem solvers, not policy wonks.
  • Customer service reps maintain your company’s good name and reputation.
  • Customer service reps are among your smartest, savvy initiators of change.
  • Good customer service people don’t need standard language and have good communication skills.
  • Good customer service reps speak the language of the country they serve fluently, and can easily be understood.
  • Good customer service reps are charismatic, are not judgmental, and do not put company or colleagues down.

Be honest. Don’t you hate automated customer service phone lines or being referred to a company web page (some have chat groups now) when you have complicated real question to ask? Sometimes there is no way out of the automation prison, but to hang up. Round and round you go otherwise. Bottom line: a machine can’t change an answer you’ve already received, i.e., a billing issue. Not yet anyway. Read my last blog and you’ll see it can.

Not only do customers define our products, they define how we conduct business, and sometimes whether we continue in business. The latter was more the case in terms of smaller companies. Not so much now, but they should. If only customers go viral…

As luck would happen, or compartmentalization, Bob answered the phone less than a week later and someone from Green Tree was trying to sell insurance on Bob and Carol’s major household appliances and valuable items. You could say, Bob was less than receptive. He didn’t get angry. He simply said, “This would not be a good time to talk to us.” There was double meaning in what he said, but there was no point in taking his grief out on an innocent employee.

Carol received word at work from Green Tree customer service team is indeed possible some twenty days after being told it wasn’t. So, in the end Green Tree came through. I’m not one to beat a company when it is down. There could be a number of reasons why it took so long to resolve the issue.

Resolving the issue is only one aspect of great customer service. Response time can be great. Providing instant basic detain can be great. Solving the problem can be great. But without compassion and flexibility and people on the front end who can adjust policy accordingly, the customer service will only be coated with Teflon. Here it appears compartmentalization or “company gigantism” and diversification may have lead to the series of missteps and miscommunications with serious financial concerns. Again, we come back to: what looks good in the strategic plan and follows a great vision can be missing a critical element. In customer service, that element is the customer itself.

Happy training.

For more resources about training, see the Training library.

For more on Jack Shaw, check his home site, where you can find access to other publications, including a fantastic young adult science fiction/dystopian novel called, In Makr’s Shadow.

The Ultimate Word-of-Mouth Product

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Give ‘em Something to Talk About

I spent ten bucks on a cell phone purse, and it’s a conversation starter every time I wear it. The conversation isn’t only about the purse – it quickly evolves into the story about the organization and the woman who made it.

I bought it at a local festival with hundreds of booths and some fun, creative handcrafted items. I just stumbled upon this particular booth and was attracted to this particular purse. I liked the colors and since I like to write, I was attracted to the design – pens and prolific authors!

Take a Look

Take a close look at the photo. The purse is on the right side, and if you look really closely – you’ll see that it’s made out of a man’s necktie! The pointed flap is the bottom of the tie, and it has a long strap of the same material (which you don’t see in the photo.)

Now, that’s interesting, and it gets attention. But after we discuss the necktie aspect, the next question is always, “Who made it?” That’s when I get to tell the very compelling story behind it, and it becomes a memorable word-of-mouth marketing piece.

Refuge Handicrafts

The people in the photo are involved with a special group of refugees. The woman on the left is actually the very one who made this tie. The group is called “Refuge Handicrafts”, a project of Catholic Charities of Tennessee, Inc. Their mission is to work with resettled refugee women to help promote self-sufficiency through self-employment. These women actually start their own small business and receive 100% of the money generated!

They recognize that refugee women face unique barriers to working outside of the home. In order for the women to overcome these challenges, Refuge Handicrafts works with them to develop their many talents and skills. Through financial literacy classes, English language classes, along with business development & management training, they become successful business owners.

What’s Your Word-of-Mouth Strategy?

I think this is a brilliant word-of-mouth product, and I keep the tag with the story on it right inside my purse, so that when I get the question, “Who made it?” I can show them how to buy their own.

If you’d like to purchase any of their products, or just receive more information about their program and services, contact them by email: handicrafts@cctenn.org.

For more resources, see the Free Management Library topic: Marketing and Social Media.

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