A Good Communicator

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We have all attended quite a few webinars, events, courses – some very good and some not so good ones. In comparing them, were the good ones due to communicating knowledge well and the not so good ones lacking in communication and knowledge?

The good communicator – Prepares for the topic ahead of time. They also begin with:

  • a solid introduction, by giving a heads up to the attendees of what the event will consist of,
  • what will be presented,
  • when Q&A occurs,
  • finds out the level of knowledge of attendees,
  • what attendees expect from the speaker,
  • manages time accordingly,
  • maintains a high level of energy and demeanor, and
  • shows no frustration shown by the audience.

The not so good ones – lack all or some of the above attributes when it comes to speaking and presenting the course. The presenter is there to help the attendees, not to frustrate them. The attendees are there because they are somewhat frustrated by a lack of knowledge in a certain area, and the presenter is supposed to fill that void.

Therefore, to succeed:

  • What is highly needed is knowing the subject matter. Even if you are a great communicator, if you do not know the material, and some extra knowledge that allows you to answer questions, then a successful session or lecture will not occur.
  • Using a few ‘umms’ – sometimes a speaker cannot help but do that even when they are knowledgeable when they are nervous, but as they move on and the audience is attentive, then those ‘’umm’ moments will cease.
  • Lecture at a normal speed – speak as if chatting with a friend – then the audience will be able to follow the lecture. Too slow will be boring and put them to sleep and too fast will not allow the audience to absorb what is being said.

To help the presenter, it is always good to also supply the audience with some documentation; either a quick reference sheet, or an outline of the presentation. This way, the audience feels more connected to the subject as well as the speaker, and will not feel that they might get lost.

Other ideas are;

  • For important ‘how to’ steps, the presenter could demonstrate processes whenever possible and supply links on the sheet that will redirect them to review what steps were taken.
  • For further reading material, as well as more tips, the presenter again can supply a link to some manuals, documents or resource material and reviews that consists of more detailed information on the subject.

When it comes to Q&A time, always listen and try to understand what the real question is being asked. If the audience is enjoying the lecture, individuals will assist and reword what is being asked so that the question can be answered appropriately. Also, if an answer is not known, then there is nothing wrong in saying, the question will be looked into and a solution researched.

So to answer the original question of ‘..were the good ones due to communicating knowledge well and the not so good ones lacking in communication and knowledge?’.

The answer should be ‘yes’ to both questions because there is a distinction between what is a good communicator and a poor one. It depends on the amount of knowledge presented, the ability to answer questions, and listening to the audience.

Four Insights for Small-Business Marketing

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By David Newman
By David Newman

“How and when will this generate sales?” That’s what entrepreneurs typically ask themselves when investing in marketing. “And that is the completely WRONG question to ask,” says marketing expert David Newman.

In his new book, DO IT! MARKETING (at this link you can download a free strategic marketing ebook), Newman reveals the right questions to ask, right away, for marketing a small business with a big impact – both online and off. It all builds on these four fundamental insights:

Insight #1: You need to sell the same way that you buy.

When was the last time you snapped up an offer from spam e-mail? When’s the last time you gave your credit card number over to a cold caller who interrupted your dinner? As a customer, you don’t buy from any company based on its spam, cold calls, postcards, or text pitches. So, why do you expect any customer—let alone, lots of eager customers—to buy based on yours? The right question to ask, in Newman’s book: What value have I added to my prospect’s world in order to earn the right to invite them to a conversation and offer my solution to their problems, headaches, heartaches, and challenges?

Insight #2: Referrals rock, but they’re not everything.

I don’t need to do any marketing because 99 percent of my business is repeat and referral business.” Maybe that’s what you tell yourself. Do you seriously think that referrals don’t check you out online before picking up the phone? What messages are you sending to valued referrals with an outdated website and abandoned Twitter account? The right questions to ask, in Newman’s book: Does my overall online presence reassure and reinforce the referrals I earn? Does it contain the most current, credible, and relevant positioning, content, and resources to make my advocates look better—not worse—for referring me?

Insight #3: Trusted advisor marketing is a four-layer enchilada.

The first layer—at the core—is your reputation. But if you stop there, you’ll have a very hard time attracting new prospects to your doorstep. The second layer is amplification—ways to make your signal stronger (such as social media marketing and niche PR). The third layer is leverage. This is where you begin to capitalize on your trusted advisor assets (such as white papers, podcasts, or a blog) and reach out to higher-probability prospects. The fourth layer is gravity. Though it takes a long time to get it spinning, the power of momentum—which brings more leads, better prospects, and bigger opportunities—is hard to stop. The right questions to ask, in Newman’s book: Do you want to make more sales to strangers? Or do you want people to recognize, respect, and request you by name when they have a need, project, or problem that you truly are the perfect expert to handle?

Insight #4: Your what comes last.

“What should be my company name? What’s the best headline for this sales letter? What tagline will attract the right customers?”… When it comes to your marketing, what is always the wrong first question to ask. Imagine being asked to write a letter. Before focusing on the what, you first need to know to whom the letter should be addressed (your favorite aunt, your high school sweetheart, the President) and then why you are writing. Once you know who and why, what to say is a piece of cake—because you feel connected with the unique recipient of your message for a specific purpose. The right questions to ask, in Newman’s book: To whom am I marketing and why? Figure out who you’re talking to, talk to them for a specific, compelling, relevant reason, understanding who they are and what’s important to them. Say it so they get it – value it – and ultimately buy it. That’s how smart marketing is supposed to work.

Download a free strategic marketing ebook by David Newman: www.doitmarketing.com

Adapted from DO IT! MARKETING: 77 Instant-Action Ideas to Boost Sales, Maximize Profits, and Crush Your Competition by David Newman (AMACOM; June 20, 2013; $19.95 Hardcover; ISBN: 978-0-8144-3286-0).

About the Author:

David Newman is the founder of Do It! Marketing, a marketing strategy coaching and consulting firm whose clients range from independent professionals to executives at Accenture, American Express, Comcast, IBM, KPMG, Microsoft, Oracle, and PriceWaterhouseCoopers, among dozens of the Fortune 500.

Because I want you to…

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i want you to

I have all kinds of excuses. I was fighting off stomach flu and dizziness. I was dragging through my workshop toward the end of the day. I was digging deep to keep going, when suddenly I heard myself say the phrase I always bend over backward not to say, “I want you to……” Inwardly, even in my weakened state, I cringed.

You may have heard me rant about this before. While it’s not the end of the world to say it, it can hit a sour note with anyone who hears it. “I want you” to sounds bossy, arbitrary, and puts the focus on me the instructor or speaker rather than you the learner. It always reminds me of that awful phrase we use on our kids when we are exasperated: “because I say so.”

So when you are in the classroom, the boardroom, or the conference call, what is a better way to move people to action? Try one of these, or something similar that keeps the focus on the request and sounds a lot more polished. Like I could have done in that moment.

Better choices include:

Will you
Will you please
Would you
Would you please
Could you
Please
Shall we
Why don’t we
Let’s
If we could
If you would
Perhaps you would
If you would be so kind
If you are willing
I wonder if you would
It would be great if you would
I invite you to
I encourage you to
I urge you to
Now it’s time to

You may not like all of these phrases. In fact I am sure you won’t. Some will strike you as too direct, others as way too indirect. And some will just appeal more to your personality or style. But note that there are many ways to ask your class or audience to do something without telling them to do it because “I want you to.”

Please note that these “softer” phrases are specifically geared toward situations where you are enlisting support or action, as in training or coaching situations. When you are giving work direction, you may prefer to be more direct and forceful than these phrases suggest. Even so, I would think about stating your request in the “please will you do x” format rather than “I want you to do x.” Again, keeping the focus on the action, not having you do something simply because I want it.

If you are looking for a nicer way to couch your requests, I invite you to try one or more of these. Choose ones that sound like you and that you think would sit well with your listeners and be appropriate in tone. And please, do let me know if you have other phrases you would be willing to share.

In my opinion, using these phrases or ones like them shows more professionalism and more respect in the classroom or meeting room.

Author Gail Zack Anderson, founder of Applause, Inc. is a Twin Cities-based consultant who provides coaching and workshops for effective presentations, facilitation skills for trainers and subject matter experts, and positive communication skills for everyone. She can be reached at gza@applauseinc.net.

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One Mold Doesn’t Fit All

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When presenting documentation for approval, adjustments have to be made even if there is a set standard and style guide that lends itself to mold out documentation in a unified format.

Sometimes you have to make the adjustments and customize for the client, as not all clients are the same. They may prefer different ways to present what they want, especially to their own stakeholders, employees, or clients, etc. They may accept your explanations or reasoning behind what is presented, but they know their stakeholders best and may say ‘yes, ……’but’….For cases like these, bend the rules and go with whatever the clients wishes, as in the end, it is their choice.

They know their business better than you do and know how the business operates better than you do, so let them finalize, revise, organize, and handle their own forms of written communication. They may have their own communication department and their own standards or traditions to abide by; in other words, they have their own branding to maintain.

What I just described probably falls in the arena of a technical writing consulting communication position. The basis or foundation that you offer can be provided, but then in the end, it is up to the individual or company that you are working with or for. Some companies may just accept what you present and like it. But just as a precaution, prepare for more than one presentation. Be adaptable. Be prepared to change paths as you are speaking and presenting to them. The best way to accomplish this is to rehearse prior to communicating with them and play out different scenarios in your mind ahead of time.

Have you seen that show on television where improvisation takes place? Well you should apply the same techniques when you can. If you are relaxed and are confident and knowledgeable about your work, then you will have no problem. I find that if you are happy or have just laughed at a joke, then you are in a good mood with endorphins rolling in and will have that extra confidence. The audience will like how you are speaking and smiling and thereby exhibiting a lot of energy and vitality. It in turn puts the audience at ease and in a good mood. As a result an informal Q and A can occur where energetic atmospheres are brought about and in turn allows for a- good brainstorming session as well. When this situation arises, more creative ideas can be brought forth.

Even if you think you know your audience pretty well, they may have other priorities or a different agenda that they have to stick to. So when presenting your documentation, have available with you various documentation formats to see which the audience prefers. Be adaptable, confident, and be prepared and ready.

If you have had to make a presentation and have experienced being adaptable and making last minute adjustments, please share your experiences.

The Secret to Connecting with Buyers: Emotion-Based Questions

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Guest Author: Michael Boyette

Chances are you learned how open-ended questions differ from closed-ended ones back in Sales 101. And of course, you learned that open-ended questions are the best kind during sales discovery.

That makes sense, because the yes-or-no answers you get with closed-ended questions don’t stimulate dialogue.

But here’s the rub: An open-ended question doesn’t necessarily engage the prospect emotionally.

That’s where you need to connect. Brain science research suggests that most buying decisions are made emotionally and then justified logically – even when the buyer believes that

emotion didn’t play a significant role.

Emotion-based questions

So it makes good sense to engage the prospect’s emotions early in the sales process. Your discovery questions create a great opportunity to do exactly that.

No matter what you sell or how you sell it, be it over the phone or across a desk, the need for emotional involvement is there with you. The buyer wants to take ownership, and your role is to get them to visualize that ownership, get engaged, build their “buy in,” have trust in you – and sign on the dotted line.

Important note: When we talk about emotional involvement, we don’t mean manipulation, or pressure, or “closing” techniques. We do mean genuine emotional engagement that aims to touch both the heart and mind.

The idea is to develop a different strategy, one that involves emotion-based questions, not just logic-based ones.

Breaking away from logic

As you will see, this concept breaks away from traditional questioning styles, and involves formulating questions that are emotionally engaging.

Before getting into sample questions and phrases you can use as a template, let’s look more closely at the process.

Logic-based questions typically involve old-fashioned “qualifying” questions that buyers often find aggravating or downright annoying. They may even fall into the “none-of-your-beeswax”

category.

Examples include financial questions like “What’s your budget?” or “What are you paying for this now?”

The concept underlying an emotion-based approach is that you want the prospect to qualify themselves because you are engaging and friendly, and sincerely care about them.

To quote Dale Carnegie, “You can make more friends in two months by becoming really interested in other people, than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in

you.”

For example, before jumping into a sales presentation, ask emotion-oriented questions that open with phrases like: “How long have you been considering…” or “What are you hoping for….”

As the sale progresses, ask emotion-based questions like, “Is this what you have in mind?” or “Can you see this achieving your goals?” or “How might your company benefit from this?” Consider going deeper with “What do you think the CEO will say?”

Such questions get prospects to reveal their feelings – and become more engaged. They’re more likely to produce honest answers about your offering and how it will affect their expected outcome.

Help visualize ownership

What follows the purchase is more important to the buyer than the sales process. But drawing out their emotions during the process is the key to getting them to take ownership.

To help them visualize ownership, ask emotion-oriented questions during the presentation: “What do you think about solving this problem once and for all?” “How will your team use this?” or “How do you see this boosting productivity?”

Pleasure, not pain

You hear a lot about “finding the pain” as a key to uncovering a buyer’s real needs. And you can use pain to make an emotional connection. But pain is negative, and can be a turn-off.

Jumping in with pain-oriented questions like “What keeps you up at night?” or “Where does it hurt?” can create a negative, defensive atmosphere. And in any event, the answer you get is very likely to be evasive or only partially true.

Instead, use questions that find the pleasure. That usually lies in the positive emotions around their expected outcome, their true purpose, and their true motives.

Author Bio:

Michael Boyette is the Executive Editor of Rapid Learning Institute and thought leader for the Top Sales Dog Blog. Michael is a nationally recognized authority on selling and has written hundreds of articles and training programs for sales reps and sales managers. Over the course of his 30+ year career, Michael has written ten books for publisher such as Simon & Schuster, Dutton, and Holt. Michael has managed public-relations programs for US Healthcare, Bell Communications Research, and DuPont. Michael is a graduate of the University of Florida College of Journalism.

Tips On Facing The Board

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You are going to give a presentation on a new application or product. There will be stakeholders, developers, and some managers at the board meeting. Your hands are sweating and you are short of breath. Do not worry – you are ready. Why? Because you have all your notes, and your presentation is ready. You have created a slide show with outlined material, and you have a binder neatly packaged with information to hand out. The packaged notes are very important, especially for those who may not be able to stay for the complete presentation.

Be aware that your audience may be varied, and may not be familiar with the project, so add in some extra background information to ensure everyone is brought up-to-date. And, to ensure that you have all the necessary information and material that you need, make sure you have documented and included the following:

– An introduction to the new product and its purpose, the reason why this project is needed, and how it benefits the organization.

– Material supporting your work on Identifying, assessing, and analyzing all the business requirements, processes, and risks involved, and your ideas on the best way to present the results.

– Notes on continuous meetings with all stakeholders (managers, developers, users, etc.) and how you have collaborated with others to develop some business cases.

– Time, cost, and resources it will take to reach the end result.

– All the technical and functional specifications; guidelines.

– All the technical information detailing the system and data architecture including taxonomies, metadata, definitions, monitoring, recovery solutions, etc.

– Handouts describing specific topics at a high level and then a breakdown for others.

– Images of prototypes.

– Compliance issues.

– All the required test and regression test plans and respective scenarios.

– What user manuals, lessons, training material will be required and what user support will be needed via customer service.

– All the needed marketing and sales material.

– And finally, an appendix, glossary, reference sheet, etc., if needed.

Create indexed sections for all of the above for easy reference. Be creative and include some tear-out sheets for referral. You can even include a link to the existing packet you are handling out for easy referral. Create mappings, charts, etc., to depict as much information as you can. Include your slides in the packet so that the audience can jot down notes. For the style of the referenced material, use bullets and outlines, or list items for an easy read; shorten verbiage.

For a break, questions can be included at the end of each of section to jolt or remind the audience to consider other additional questions to ask, or to provide recommendations or insights.

Please leave a comment if you have ever had to create a portfolio or a presentation package. What were the drawbacks and benefits?

Presenting Across the Table: Successful Informal Presentations

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Front view portrait of four business executives sitting in a linePresentations don’t have to be formal, stand up affairs. Many times we make our case across the table from a client, a boss or a colleague. It may be tempting to consider these informal presentations as unimportant, but just think what is riding on them — a major sale or business relationship, a raise or promotion, the success or failure of a team initiative or project. Wow! I would say these presentations are every bit as important as the sit-down kind, and deserve our full attention in planning and execution.

To help you remember some of the keys to success across the table, here is a checklist in acronym form.

Tune in to your audience. Take time to think about WHO you are speaking with. WHY is this presentation important? WHAT do they expect to hear? HOW will you make your case compelling, especially if you are suggesting a change or presenting something new? Tune in to the rational as well as the emotional makeup of your audience as you plan what you are going to say.

Attend to your delivery skills. How are you sitting? Are you alert, calm, and facing the other person? Are your arms and legs uncrossed, your hands relaxed? Is your face pleasant and engaged? Are you enunciating clearly, and speaking with conviction? Be sure to breathe, open your mouth, and make steady but not overbearing eye contact as you speak.

Begin and end strong. As in all presentations, your audience will tend to remember what you say first and last. Plan ahead. Think it through. Create a one or two-sentence position statement that is clear and direct. After appropriate (but brief) social niceties, state your point of view, and then back it up with three or four supporting facts. As the discussion comes to a close, use your pre-planned closing comments to summarize your discussion, or to end with a call to action or next steps.

Learn your content. You may think these presentations require no rehearsal, since you don’t plan to be standing up in front of a crowd. But trust me; you can get just as tongue-tied in front of a client or boss. Take a few minutes in the days or hours before this conversation to rehearse your part of the conversation out loud. Record it on your smart phone, and then listen to it. Or have a friend or colleague role-play with you. The payoff will be increased confidence and credibility when you deliver the content to the intended audience.

Expect discussion. These informal presentations most often end up being discussions rather than monologs. Prepare yourself for several possibilities, so that whatever happens, you won’t be blind-sided. Will your listener agree wholeheartedly? Great! But you can’t always be sure how a listener will react. Maybe they will object strenuously. Become angry or defensive, or demand more information. Think about how you might handle each of these outcomes so you at least have a plan in mind. And stay flexible — you can’t always predict what will happen.

So as you see, presentations across the table, although more informal, require some of the same thought and planning that a formal presentation does. The good news is that each time you properly prepare and execute a successful informal presentation, you build and reinforce an important skillset you will use again and again.

How do you prepare for and execute informal presentations and critical discussions? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

The Technical Communicator

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As an addendum to the previous post on Tips For A Training Manual, I have to add that communicating information face-to-face is difficult and is even more challenging when you communicate via text. Whether you are writing user manuals, online help, technical documents or release notes for software applications, you need to have certain attributes to be an effective Technical Communicator. Attributes such as:

1) Having technical excellence in understanding the product. The Technical Communicator has to be knowledgeable about the product; its functions and fall-backs in order to write and convey its benefits, requirements, etc.

2) Being analytical and logical (in order to explain soundly what is occurring; the why and the how). This is exceptionally needed when performing quality assurance tasks or creating test plans.

3) Understanding the organizations surroundings or the environment; its culture. The writer has to be alert and be able to use intuitive feelings to see and grasp certain conditions or situations to communicate what is needed; a content strategist. An example is when an organization does not realize that additional types of documents are needed, e.g., when a company with many writers in different departments would benefit from a style guide.

4) Being aware of the user’s experience, i.e., how they can use the application software or product. With this in mind, it’s not just, e.g., describing how to navigate from one screen to another. It’s about clarifying and detailing what the user needs to know, as well as taking into consideration how users operate.

5) Understanding the client. This attribute is especially needed within global organizations to prevent misunderstandings leading to product errors.

6) Understanding the SME (Subject Matter Expert). This is crucial for being able to translate details, e.g., business processes or data requirements.

7) Having interviewing, listening, and collaborating skills. Knowing how to paraphrase a question to get the appropriate response, understanding what is being conveyed, and being able to interact with individuals to gather your data, respectively, are necessary interpersonal social skills

8) Being organized. Managing and keep track of all the information that needs to be explained is not an easy task. Being methodical will aid in creating structured concise documents.

9) Being a designer. Technical Communicators are visual designers too. They have to be able to know the audience well enough to customize and present the documents in an appealing creative manner.

10) Writing capably. Writing is not just about grammar and vocabulary. To communicate technically via writing, the information has to be detailed, clear, concise, and complete.

11) Being adaptable. Having flexibility is needed for last minute changes and for cases when unforeseen events cause new incidents. Constant changes occur all the time. The communicator has to be flexible enough to accept these changes and to make necessary adjustments. Being adaptive is also being able to adapt to how you relate to your audience.

Bringing all the above together, presents an effective Technical Communicator.

What other attributes would you add to be an effective Technical Communicator?

A Targeted Sales Letter Can Work Magic for Direct Marketing

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Guest Author: Jan Hill

Targeted Sales Letter

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Direct mail marketing need not be expensive or complicated. According to Forbes, a simple letter can be extremely powerful, all by itself. Whether you are planning to send a physical letter or an email, the elements of a successful sales letter stay the same.

When Letters Are Your Best Bet

There are times when a sales letter is most effective. One is when you notice that certain customers have stopped being your customers. A simple “We miss you and want you back” letter can encourage them to come back to you where an email may not have the same personal feeling and individualized effect. Conversely, an email can be scheduled to arrive in your customer’s inbox at a time that can maximize its effectiveness, so your approach will depend on your product or service and campaign goals.

According to Deliver magazine, if you’ve got a story to tell and it is going to take more than a few words, a sales letter is the way to go, especially if your product or service is costly — big purchases require more persuasion than small ones. Reply cards, coupons, a bulky item (to encourage that the mailer get opened), and customer testimonials can and should accompany your letter to increase its effectiveness.

Emailed sales letters are best when timing is crucial. For example, if you sell food products it might make sense to send an email around 3pm, when your target audience may be experiencing post-lunch low blood sugar and snacking might be front and center in their mind. Or, you might want to target customers in advance of a known event, like sending a sales email about stocking up on cyclist clothing before the largest bike ride of the year. Email sales letters pair nicely with online storefronts and impulse purchasing.

Introducing a new business? You need a letter to engage your target in your story. You can also share updates about your products or services and offer discounts with a well-crafted sales letter.

How to Write a Winning Letter for Direct Marketing Success

Tony Attwood of Hamilton House Mailings offers some tips for writing effective sales letters. First of all, there’s the headline. It should be powerful, get the reader’s attention, and be placed about one-fourth of the way down the page, where the eyes naturally fall.

Make sure your sales letter follows good design practices and has a positive visual impact. There are many sales letter templates available that will incorporate your company logo, branding, and colors to give the document your personal touch.

A sales letter should be easy to read, using short paragraphs of two or three sentences each, including lots of white space at the margins and between paragraphs. It should always be written to an individual, not a group, and have a tone meant to engage your readers in a conversation. It should sound like you do, casual and informal, not stiff, stilted, and filled with bizspeak.

Sales letters need to have staying power, according to Microsoft Business Hub. You need to make your letter memorable and encourage the reader to tuck it away for future reference. You can quickly build trust by placing an endorsement from a former client or associate at the top of your letter to quickly create interest.

Because many readers are skimmers, the first few words of each paragraph need to draw the reader in by addressing problems and offering a solution — “One argument might be…,” or, “The best way to solve this problem is…,” or “Potential benefits are…”

Don’t Forget Your Conclusion

Hopefully your letter has done the job of convincing your readers that they need your product or service. Now you need a good, persuasive closing, and a strong call to action, telling the readers what they should do next — call or email you, or say that you’ll get in touch with them. Then make sure you follow up by doing what you said you’d do.

A call to action should clearly state what you want your readers to do; make the action easy by including order blanks, postcards, or postage-paid envelopes. If it’s an email letter, make sure to include appropriate links to more information or contact forms. Provide a date by which you want the contact to respond; and give them a benefit to stimulate action. This benefit, sometimes referred to as a “clincher,” appears appropriately at the end of your sales letter. It serves to motivate your readers and emphasizes how your product or service will benefit them.

Author Bio:

Jan Hill is a freelance journalist who writes for VistaprintDeals.com, the official source for Vistaprint coupons for small businesses across the globe. Jan has covered marketing topics for many newspapers, magazines and business sites over the last 10 years.

Do Your Homework for Great Presentation Skills

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32149925Sam didn’t know what a great business presentation looked like. He had joined his organization right after leaving school, and when he presented, he was alone with his clients. Other than all-hands meetings, he just hadn’t been exposed to many presentations, so it was hard for him to evaluate his own presentation skills.

Some of us learn what to do by observing great speakers, and seeing what they do well. If you are like Sam, and don’t really have positive role models, imagine how powerful it would be to have some great examples of what to do for presentation success! You would be able to focus on the positives, and build your own skills and confidence.

It’s a little bit like watching lots of home-improvement TV before tackling your own project. You will want to get lots of great ideas, decide which ones fit your house and your style, and then adapt them to your situation.

So, do your homework. See what great speakers do. Increase your level of self-awareness. Experiment. Get some feedback. Do lots of fine-tuning. In time, you will be the great speaker that others can learn from. Here are a few ways to get started.

Watch your boss. He or she may or may not be the ideal presenter, but this is the person you will probably see presenting most often, as well as the person who will likely be giving you feedback on your own presentations. What are this person’s strengths? What habits can you pick up from watching this person? How do you want to be like your boss as a speaker? And how would you like to be different. These could be great discussions for you both to have.

Watch your colleagues. They may be team members, or people from other functional areas. If you get a chance to sit in on their presentations, do it. Again, what do they do well? Observe their presentation structure, their slides, their delivery skills. How do they respond to the audience? Make note of 2-3 ideas you could “borrow” and adapt.

Watch your competitors. If you get a chance to go to trade shows or conferences, you may have a chance to sit in and watch your competitors in action. What do they do differently than you do? Where are their weaknesses that you could exploit by building corresponding strengths in your skills? For example, if they tend to have weak openings, you might be able to craft and rehearse stronger openings to capture audience attention faster.

Watch TED talks. If you haven’t seen any TED talks yet, I recommend highly that you scoot over to TED.com and start watching. The topics are associated with technology, education and design, and the speakers do vary, but generally you will have a chance to see some great speakers in action. How do they command the stage? How do they use humor? How do they convey a lot of technical detail in just a few minutes? What do their visual aids look like? As a rule, these talks are extremely well designed and executed, and you could learn a lot here about what to do.

Go to conferences. Whether the content is pertinent to your field or not, you can sit in on a large number of speakers and see how they are all different. Take a few notes about what appeals to you and what does not. For each speaker, look for at least one thing you like, and at least one thing that does not appeal to you. Keep notes, and look for trends. Remember, content, slides, delivery, and audience interaction are all great topics to evaluate.

Go to webinars. There is no reason NOT to see speakers in action when you can sit in on free webinars day or night. Listen to the voices. Focus on the content and how it is presented. See how they engage their audiences, or not. Some webinars are extremely well done, polished pitches. Others are home-spun and imperfect. But you can still learn from them without leaving your desk.

See yourself. It is very hard to “see” yourself as others do, and just as difficult to evaluate your own skills. Many of us are way too hard on ourselves, others think we are better than we really are. The best way to begin to understand your own strengths and weaknesses is to video yourself, either in rehearsal or in the actual presentation, and then watch it with an unbiased eye. This is not easy, and you may need to get someone to help you through it, but it is critical to building genuine confidence tempered with humility.

A few words of caution: if you have been learning how to give presentations by avoiding the mistakes others make, you may be overly focused on what NOT to do. With this mindset, it is easy for us to feel nervous or unsure of ourselves. So look for the good in your observations, as well as the not-so-good.

You might also fall into the trap of observing a great speaker and then wanting to be just like them. Not a good idea, as you will fall short every time, and end up being less sure of your own strengths and abilities. The goal is to adapt, not copy, what you are seeing.

That said, if we observe others who are good at public speaking, we can “try on” some of the behaviors that appeal to us and see what fits us and what doesn’t. By picking and choosing from a number of skilled speakers, you are more likely to find your own style. And that is something you can be confident about.

Author Gail Zack Anderson, founder of Applause, Inc. is a Twin Cities-based consultant who provides coaching and workshops for effective presentations, facilitation skills for trainers and subject matter experts, and positive communication skills for everyone. She can be reached at gza@applauseinc.net.

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