All’s Well at the Job Fair: Being Prepared for Success

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Networking and Continuous Learning at Job Fairs.

What was I doing trolling the Recruit Military Opportunity Expo? It never hurts to see what is out there and to network. For me, I had a different plan, but the networking is always a good idea. I’m always open to new opportunities. You never know when a gem of an opportunity comes your way.

Here’s one kind of opportunity: the kind where I get to talk to others about training and development, communication and getting the most out of experiences–the best experiential training you can get, and applying it to the future. Everyone knows experience is invaluable training, plus the military already trained the attendees, so the company’s representatives were looking at a ready resource with most of the basic training (no pun intended) taken care of. As for the educational reps, it was a perfect venue to encourage career change or development. More training.

Corporate universities like this one are expected to one day outnumber traditional universities.

In the course of my “trolling” I was in a position to promote and learn, network and learn about my audience. How do traditional colleges and universities view Corporate Universities? Some hadn’t even heard of them until I dropped a few names like McDonald’s university, “Hamburger U,” “Motorola University,” and “Boeing University;” however, in return, the schools I talked to were more than willing to tell me how they viewed training for the job.

An interesting note. One such institution felt there was a difference between teaching and training, and that had to do with an “educational” distinction: ensuring students compare what they were learning and applied what they learned to what they think–essentially the reality they understand. My reaction? I hope the trainers I know do the same thing. Trainees should be allowed to think, too. If they are not allowed to think, kiss creativity and innovation bye-bye.

What training value is there in attending a job fair for the trainee other than a job or educational opportunity? All of the above and more.

Go to table to table, and started out by touching base with a table of people you might consider your comfort zone.

It not only gives you a chance to see what is going on in your field and others, it also gives you a chance to practice communication skills–sometimes interviewing skills. Think of each encounter as practice listening and selling yourself. Not only are you practicing what you know, it may have surprising results. An opportunity you only dreamed of may present itself. Yes, that very reason, job fairs exist: to snare you. If you are ready to be snared for that dream job, so be it. No one will really hold it against you. If most colleagues were to admit it, they would admire you and know you deserve it for your initiatives. However, if that scenario doesn’t happen, be satisfied that you were in a continuous learning mode. Seeing the reps out has a motivating effect for you as you realize, “I have a good job,” or “This educational opportunity might be just for me.”

I have to say the best lessons learned are those where you caught the mistake yourself and vowed never to do it again.
I learned some here that I thought I would pass on to you.

This was a last minute decision. I threw resumes and materials I had on hand together and left out the most important part of my package: my business cards. Bad but not worse, someone even commented my headshot did not look like me. On the positives side, I made conversation–even though I’m a little shy. I went table to table, and started out by touching base with the Marines, sort of using it as my comfort zone. I’m too old to re-enlist but a good chance to warm up and see what the current group of Marines are facing when they come back. I really am shy, and this warmed me up. I then spoke to various companies and schools about training and development, about speaking and teaching, even about writing about theatre and theatrical reviews–all things connected to me somehow and tried to connect those skills to the company or school I spoke to. I even spoke to the event organizer about having a speaker to welcome and motivate “troops” (hinting, of course, I can do that and I would do it for free). However, he noticed my lack of business cards. Not good.

My biggest mistake was making this a last minute effort. However, it was still worthwhile.
As I said earlier, let’s learn from the mistakes I made and shall endeavor never to repeat. Now, you…

Be prepared, not just for this even, but for any event like this one and you won’t end up like me.

Do prepare a package of generic materials, or better yet, materials that are specifically aimed at companies in which you see value in interfacing. Let them see the best side of you. No matter how good you can talk about yourself, these reps have seen hundreds of people, some just like you, and in some venues even more than hundreds. Well crafted and targeted materials will be remembered longer than you and will help them remember you in person.

Do remain positive and do your best to remember the reps’ names. When talking to them, be cognizant that others may overhear or even be listening intently on purpose.
I had one fellow, with whom I had spoken to earlier, come over and join a rival rep to hear more. I hope it was because what I had to say was interesting.

In addition to ensuring your materials are up-to-date, make sure you bring up-to-date business cards as well. I forgot my business cards, but I also noticed my materials did not have my latest web address. I had my first blogging address, which is actually under a heading called What I Say on my new website. Having to explain that after making a good impression is simply awkward.

Finally, look in the mirror and look at your headshot on your materials if you have them. Smile.
It ought to be close to what you look like now. If you changed a lot, or lost (or gained, sorry) weight, I’d get a new one. For people in the face-to-face business like trainers, speakers and, oh yes, actors, headshots are a must. Word to the wise though. A headshot sent when it is not expected can make you look like an egotist instead of a professional–especially if it is an 8″ by 10″ like an actors. 2″ by 2″ or a little more is more than adequate for a business profession and a part of your resume–not a separate document, except maybe a bio you might use on speaking engagements. Make sure a professional headshot is an appropriate part of your resume or brochure. It used to be few resumes had them. With technology today it is easy to do.

Good photographers take as many as a hundred pictures and all you have to do is find just one.

Headshots should be professionally done by a specialist because not every photographer knows how to do them according to the market, and show you at your best. It should not distract from the written material on the page. If it shows things about you that could have your resume dismissed–say you look too young for the potential the job is asking for. you don’t want to lose consideration because to them you look 15, give yourself a chance to impress them first. It is a matter of perception and youth not always equated with experience. Attractiveness is still a factor so try to make your picture as attractive as possible, and don’t be negative; headshot professionals can work wonders. Look at mine. Still don’t feel comfortable with the outcome, maybe that is the time you do not put a picture of yourself on the package you send, but of something more generic like a classroom training. A stock photo.

Professional headshots can be expensive, but worth it. Good photographers take as many as a hundred pictures and all you have to do is find just one. As an actor, I had the help of a casting director; however, feel free to ask a colleague you trust, or better yet a previous client who has become a friend over time. Some may disagree with that, but I don’t see any harm done.

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Perhaps, not the pithiest opinion piece from me, but sometimes it’s those little things that trip us up in the training world. I am always looking at training and development from several perspectives and I hope it is of value to you. We get busy and we forget. Remember, all said here is my own and The Free Management Library. The Library offers me this wonderful opportunity to connect with you, but don’t forget there are more direct ways. Some of you may know that I am retiring from the Federal government this August 31. I plan to still be here on the Training and Development Blog, but this means I will have more time for hands-on train and develop training. Since this is not the place to promote my services, please just take a look at my website and contact me if you are interested in seeing what I can do for you or your company. You’ll also find I write about communication, theatre and theatrical reviews. Or Follow me on Twitter. For a look at the human side of training from my Cave Man perspective, please check out my book, The Cave Man Guide to Training and Development. Happy training.

Seven Steps To Guarantee Great Training Results

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Can you actually guarantee training results? Can you? The simple answer is “Yes, you can.” Of course, if you aren’t very good, it’ll be a financial disaster–not to mention the people who lost the benefit of good training. Or, maybe you aren’t so bad, but the client is ruthless and found the loophole to not pay. Not trust building to be sure, but it can happen.

I can’t with absolute certainty guarantee those results either, but I will. Maybe you will, too, after you hear the rest. The practice does have its advantages.

Obviously an arrangement like this is appealing to the buyer and has a potential for disaster unless it is worked out well. Here are the basic steps:

  1. I offer to work out most of the details in advance. You can rest assured there will be more details you and the client “forgot” when you arrive. The trick for you is to try not to forget the important aspects of the training course with this process.

    The practice does have its advantages.
  2. Travel and accommodations are paid up front and are reasonable. Basically what the company would pay for a junior executive or middle manager to travel and stay in another location. Nothing lavish. That way the client doesn’t feel taken advantage of, and it puts you in the same category as one of “his” own.
  3. Before arrival and upon arrival many of the needs are worked out. I like to know in advance exactly what I’m in for. Build a checklist of your needs as a trainer and use it as a guide to work out the details. Get the client to sign off on what “he or she” will provide you and make sure the actual conditions that may affect the outcome–don’t. You know–the too hot room, uncomfortable chairs, not enough room to move about, poor acoustics. These are things a client may assume is perfectly fine. Reserve the right to add it to the contract after you arrive.
  4. If you need the technical side taken care of by the company, obviously you can’t be responsible if it doesn’t work. If it doesn’t work in the end and that is why some of the trainees are disappointed, it is not your fault–therefore, not a part of your guarantee. So, make sure it is part of the contract.
  5. Eliminate any factors that will take away from your “fantastic” performance and address possible factors that may make the experience not so great for the attendees. If this sounds like you’re covering your bases, you are. It’s like going to the theatre and seeing a terrific show, but the air conditioning was turned off because it interfered with the acoustics and the audience couldn’t hear the actors. Some audience members will understand; some will not appreciate the treatment they received and forget the stellar performance in front of them.
  6. Be very careful to detail what you are going to be doing and what the objectives will be for the class. Ensure this is agreed to in writing before you make the trip. Allow for changes, if you wish, but only if you also make them part of the result. So note them in the contract.
  7. Everyone will admit a hundred percent acceptance of your training performance is unrealistic. Try to keep this an informal arrangement. Use qualifiers when talking to the client and the class evaluations. That way no one expects you to be perfect.
Other merchants take risks that you won’t like the product they sell and offer a money back guarantee. Is this any different?

These are just seven steps. You may think of others as you go along. Make sure to tie the possible negatives to the outcome. Let your trainees know to be specific on what was not good–in anything. The idea is to allow no surprises and if there are, you have established a good, honest, upfront relationship that may make it not a big deal. I admit that this concept of guaranteeing my performance or my results is risky, but in this economy everyone wants reassurances they are spending wisely. Me, well, I’m really just starting out on my own after 30 years of experience and a few more studying the market and the field. You’ve probably heard the songs from “A CHORUS LINE,” I Hope I Get It or I Can Do That. There is a certain desperation when the actors sing, “I really need this job.” Stop applying for the job. You can do that! Take the risk to lay out what you can guarantee.

In some ways, this is a trick blog, if there is such a thing. Guarantees are nice, but I find too often in this business there seems to be an arrogance in the marketing on behalf of those who are successful, and an ignorance and tentative approach on behalf of those just starting out. For the latter, that makes them perfect prey to the more powerful and experienced. It doesn’t have to be that way. Other merchants take risks that you won’t like the product they sell and offer a money back guarantee. Is this any different? If you are that good, there’s little risk. If you question you’re own abilities to “knock ’em” dead, at least you are aware of it and will take particular care in designing your training.

As for the contract itself, it keeps everyone honest and focused. It makes you and your client do the necessary homework to have the best training session. What’s the worse that can happen? Lessons learned by all. Some time wasted maybe–if you don’t count the learning you did in the process. Use the process to make sure you know your audience and what is expected of you. A little afraid you don’t know the subject? Having a contract guaranty will make you research it, learn it, know it.

A little afraid you don’t know the subject? Having a contract guarantee will make you research it, learn it, and know it.

Finally, the process will help you understand yourself and your client to realize just how complicated and how important good communication and training is. Bottom line: who can argue with results.

As always, these comments are my own, dredged up from my brain alone. Mine is an earthy approach to training; I try to look at it–not always as a trainer but an outsider looking in–an outsider who is a communicator, a trainer and a manager. I’ll come back with a technical look at developing training–the details I assume you already know in this post, but I’ll be back. Got a great article you’d like to do on the Developing a Training Plan, for example, let me know and it can be yours. Or look at one of the related ones that deal with terms and explanations. It only has to be substantive and not overly promotional on your part. Oh, and it helps if you can write it in an interesting way. This training and development stuff can be so boring if we let it… Smile! Want to be a guest blogger on training and development or any other subject in The Management Library‘s repertoire, click the link at the top for Guest Writers.

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Who Says Talent Isn’t First?

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Are interested in working in Netflix? Do you think that talent is your number one priority in HR? Then you shouldn’t apply at Netflix. In a current job posting on their website, Netflix clearly spells out what they are and are not looking for in a Director-HR. The message is short and doesn’t mention anything about company benefits or essential functions. But, it is effective. It is to the point and my guess is that it will weed out a number of candidates that don’t fit.

What about talent?

In a previous post, I discussed the many different answers one would get if asked, “What is HR’s number one responsibility?” Everyone in an organization seems to have their own opinion of what the answer should be. And I would also guess that most organizations lack the communication to define it across all the individuals in the organization. So we end up with 1000 different answers all in the same organization. Even with the differences, I would guess that the majority of those in HR roles would answer that talent (in one form or another) is their number one priority.

The folks at Netflix clearly state the priority of the Director is business first, customer second and talent third. Then further go to define that the incumbent will be working with the talent to meet the objectives of the business and the customer.

Isn’t this exactly what HR should be all about. Isn’t it about getting business results through the talent. Sometimes I think HR folks get so wrapped up in the feel good, or the compliance, or the policing that they forget our primary objective is helping the organization meet its business objectives. And yes the studies and research have shown that we do that by taking care of the talent. But when we lose the focus of business and customers first, we are likely going to lose our seat at the table, because we just don’t get it. And organizational leaders expect us to get it.

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Sheri Mazurek is a training and human resource professional with over 16 years of management experience, and is skilled in all areas of employee management and human resource functions, with a specialty in learning and development. She is available to help you with your Human Resources and Training needs on a contract basis. For more information send an email to smazurek0615@gmail.com or visit www.sherimazurek.com. Follow me on twitter @Sherimaz.

Is Classroom Training Dying?

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It seems traditional classroom training as we know it may be dying, but there are ways to bring it back to life.

“Recent remarks* by Tony Bingham, CEO of ASTD, suggested that much of the formal classroom with instructor-led training has gone the way of scheduled classes, blackboards and overhead projectors. Replaced by the ‘pull’ of social media from the digital natives who will become more than 50% of the USA workforce by 2015.”

Digital natives, Millennial Generation (born 1980) and Generation i (born 2000), have grown up digital.

The term “Digital natives” makes perfect sense in this world so deeply entrenched in social media.

“Digital natives, Millennial Generation (born 1980) and Generation “i” (born 2000), have grown up digital. Their life experiences have been digital instead of analog which created values different than more seasoned generations.

These ‘Net Generations’ will expect, require and demand a more digital learning experience.”

And, of course, this brings up the usual questions. From the article:

How do we make the career transition to a more digital-based, social media-inspired learning profession?

How will employers recycle the classroom trainer?

*Tony spoke at the Southwest Learning Summit & Exposition hosted by the Dallas Chapter of ASTD. He showed several videos to accent his talk. You can see two of those videos at the links below.

A Vision of K-12 Students Today

According to the producers of this video:

“This project was created to inspire teachers to use technology in engaging ways to help students develop higher level thinking skills. Equally important, it serves to motivate district level leaders to provide teachers with the tools and training to do so.”

Don Tapscott “Growing up Digital”

These 'Net Generations' will expect, require and demand a more digital learning experience.

Most of us are neither Generation (to be Generation “i” we’d be under age 11), but I think we have to be aware of the changing learning environment. However, one thing that never changes are how we use our senses to learn. If 99% of how we teach or train is verbal and 87% of how we learn is visual, it makes sense that speaking without engaging students or trainees visually is not going to hold their attention.

Now, I have never said just stand and talk in the classroom. Most good trainers and teachers I know use visual as well as auditory and kinetic learning. If we aren’t incorporating the latest in “digital” offerings we need to start.

Teachers in schools may be too strapped financially to make use of those resources.

Teachers in schools may be too strapped financially to make use of those Web 2.0 resources. They are also forced to teach the content testing requirements of the state, which, when in doubt they will be able to accomplish that in time, forces them to cut back on creative teaching methods and rely on what they know best: telling. Is that the best for the school? Probably not. Wealthier school districts are able to provide tablets or laptops for students and use the media, and are doing it today; those schools rank high in learning scores. Thankfully most teachers are younger and grew up with the technology themselves.

How does this affect training classrooms? I think it means we keep doing what we are doing if we are engaged in classroom training. Here’s how we face the challenge–what we can and can’t do…

  • Don’t forget to be part of the visual yourself, gesturing, using facial expressions and moving, which are also visual.
  • Be conscious of the digital possibilities.
  • Use the latest technology if you can. It will be even harder to incorporate a “WOW” factor without the latest digital offerings.
  • Educate yourself on the digital media that may be available. Some of it is readily available through YouTube.

For teachers, that challenge is no different, but it appears they are aware, which is good news. Here’s a comment from a teacher on the first video:

“So then the challenge becomes, how can I use or integrate Facebook, Twitter and other Web 2.0 technology out there into the curriculum so that I can engage students with it and use it as a vehicle to teach? Part of our jobs as educators is to teach students SELF-discipline. We cannot do that by taking away technology. We must teach allow them the technology and teach them to be disciplined and self-directed in their responsible use of it.”

I know there are specialists out there already engaged in promoting the Web 2.0 technology. Keep in mind that there are many tools to communicate and some better than others, but each serve a purpose. Some techniques and tools work well individually, while some work better when added to program using a variety of learning methods. I like to cover my bases and use a little of everything in my training. I use the basic verbal, visual and kinetic techniques.

Nothing beats experiential learning, instilling motivation (the why), getting a student or trainee committed to learning–realizing “what I am learning I can apply to my job and my future career.” The digital factor only makes that even more hands-on for our “Digital natives”–our Generation Millennium and Generation “i” trainees-to-be, and students.

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My comments and views are my own. I thank the Free Management Library for the opportunity to express them in this forum. I hope that you get something out of them. Haven’t had enough? Check out some of my other training articles that try to make common sense out of what we do. This is an exciting field. It is a time to exercise creativity in how we do our jobs. I’m always open to new ideas and related content. Comment here or e-mail me. I have a website, too, where I have more to say on topics other than training and development such as communication, theatre and I even write theatrical reviews. You can also find me on Twitter and Facebook (under actingsmarts), LinkedIn and GovLoop under Jack Shaw.

Looking forward to your feedback, I’m as interested in making this work better for you. There are sites out there that will give you only definitions and the basics; I try to do more. If you want it more basic, just let me know and I’ll do my best to accommodate. Forgive me if I slip in a little opinion, which, by the way, is my opinion and mine alone and not the opinion necessarily of other folks associated with The Free Management Library. For a look at the human side of training from my Cave Man perspective, please check out my book, The Cave Man Guide to Training and Development. Happy training.

Group Dynamics – Working in Self-Managed Teams

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I believed I was part of a group of people who had each other’s best interests as a core of operation. This group could best be classified as a Self-Managed Team where there was no distinct team leader, for example a string quartet. The group generally worked well together over a period of time, but there were a number of occasions over the years when I was, actively or accidentally, left on the sidelines when all others in the group were made part of the project at the time. In these instances I took the initiative and asserted myself. At the conclusion of the projects, matters were discussed by all of us and resolved. I always thought the group would perform better as a result.

Until recently, when the same group planned and executed a complete project without my input at all. They were inconsiderate and exclusive, in my opinion. Maybe the problem was me. I thought I was performing well and on further analysis I was. The issue was the group not seeing value in every member. I had made myself a part of the wrong group. I persevered though, and gave chance after chance, adjusted my values and made rationalisations. I reflected on the circumstances for a whole week and concluded that compromising myself like that was unacceptable and led to unhappiness and stress.

The situation is still difficult to talk about and I cannot provide further detail here. Removing the emotion is hard too, but it needs to be done to write about this experience objectively. With respect to teamwork and group dynamics, sometimes you just have to cut a group loose and find your own way!

Within any effectively performing group, members are given the opportunity to raise issues and concerns, contribute knowledge and opinions, and assist in operational decision-making and planning activities. Forums such as team meetings, one-on-one meetings, planning days, performance appraisals, conferences, etc all help people to develop relationships, share information, understand each other’s work and discuss issues related to the achievement of team goals. But when (not if) the group dynamics break down, what then can be done?

Being comfortable and confident in your own abilities provides a solid psychological basis for dealing with a breakdown in positive group dynamics. Knowing where your strengths lie can allow you to explore your own shortcomings more effectively. Learn from your experiences and analyse and reflect upon the feedback you have received in the past. Ensuring you are completely comfortable with your own strengths and limitations reduces the need to completely rely on others within the group for affirmation.

Next, recognise the situations in which you cannot please everybody and simply act with your best judgment – especially if you are leading the group. Any golfer or tennis player will tell you that you have to be able to trust your shot. So, too, a group member or leader has to be able to trust in their own well-informed decisions to be able to move forward. If there are issues affecting group performance, they need to be addressed promptly and directly. Offer or seek out opportunities to improve performance. This indicates to the rest of the group a willingness to work with them to explore solutions.

Despite all of these strategies there will be occasions where a group member simply makes the choice to NOT work with you in the team or with the team as a whole. Recognise this and discuss the choice with them, exploring feelings, reasons and specific examples. This can be quite a confronting exercise but it is worthwhile for peace of mind. If it comes down to it, be prepared to walk away yourself or to let them leave the group, depending on the situation. Sometimes, it’s simply just the best option for you/the group. In my situation from earlier, it was the best option for me.

The final piece of advice is to accept the consequences of your chosen action. Acceptance will eventuate after an initial period of anger or disappointment and then a period of reflection. It is important to work through these thought processes so you can then mentally equip yourself to move on to new opportunities with a renewed sense of determination.

I shall end this article with two quotes:
1. “The well-run group is not a battlefield of egos.” – Lao Tzu, Chinese Taoist philosopher
2. “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” – Winston Churchill, British WWII Prime Minister

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For more resources, see our Library topic Team Building.

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Writen by guest writer Jason Novosel from Novohorizons Management Training

Trainers: Acting or Faking It

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In the world of training, there comes a time when the trainer feels he or she is not “on.” Is it that important? It can make the difference between a successful and unsuccessful training session.

Do we fake it? Now, I’m not talking about subject matter here–not knowing what we are talking about–but faking the passion and enthusiasm to motivate your trainees to learn from the training session. Some would say the solution is acting (pretending is what they really mean). Under my definition of acting, I would not agree. We all have off days. Ever fake being glad to be at work? Same thing.

However, I think trainers (and public speakers) feel the “off day” more because the very essence of what they do is tied to a genuine connection they make with the audience, whether it is to convey information in a training setting or motivate or persuade in a speaker’s setting. If we can’t maintain that connection, everyone loses.

While it’s not acting the classic method, it’s still using the basics of acting to include stage presence–if only to achieve a greater interaction with the audience.

In keeping with the purpose of the training and development blog, I’ll try to concentrate on the trainer rather than the speaker, but the answers are pretty much the same, and trainers are speakers, too. In fact, the original question was asked of speakers. For trainers, the real question remains: if you are faking it, do your trainees know and what can you do about it?

The idea from this post came from a related question posed in a LinkedIn forum. That question actually being addressed to professional public speakers: How many feel that “acting” in a speech is faking it? The question was posed by a theatrical and speech coach, Barbara Kite, who uses acting techniques to work with executive and professional speakers. I do the same–with a bit of a difference. The question itself is a bit ambiguous, basically delving into the notion of being someone else when you are training or speaking, and not yourself; therefore, you are acting. Are you being perceived as genuine by your audience? That may depend on how good an actor you are, but I would maintain”faking” it is never a good idea–especially in the training environment. One blotched speaking engagement isn’t going to kill a professional speaker; he or she may not get an endorsement, but I’m sure there are plenty more of those for the good days.

I would say most speakers (as I’m sure many trainers and coaches have) in this LinkedIn forum have “acted” in various community plays and some in more professional outings depending on experience and opportunity, but I would suggest that some might not be able to pull it off acting that calls on the “actor” to come up with really deep insights during the audition process. That is the real thing. And that is what we have to do as trainers: find those parts of us that are real and share them. Sharing who we are–even at that moment–is part of being genuine.

Everyone has a bad day… Apologize within the normal boundaries of politeness… It may even bond you to them more–like self-deprecating humor–and make you one of them: human.

Everyone has a bad day. Maybe it’s hot, or a sick child kept you up all, or your allergies are getting the best of you. Apologize within the normal boundaries of politeness, but mostly share with your group how you’re feeling and compare notes. It may even bond you to them more–like self-deprecating humor–and make you one of them: human.

Speakers who speak for a cause they strongly believe in are probably not acting. They have no reason to since their natural sincerity for their cause will come out. But any speaker who gets paid for his or her efforts has to get results? Great trainers and speakers are really good at making the audience believe they are not acting. I’m not saying they aren’t communicating “real feelings, real lessons, real meaning,” but there’s an effective process to do it that involves “acting” a certain way, being a certain way, and understanding your audience. While it’s not acting the classic method, it’s still using the basics of acting to include stage presence–if only to achieve a greater interaction with the audience.

My acting experience is not any more of an advantage to me as a speaker or trainer than anyone else who has learned the same things about reading an audience and expressing his or herself effectively from a different environment.

What I see happening here is what happens on LinkedIn occasionally because many use it as a forum to promote themselves and their work rather than network, but the questions are stimulating. Sometimes the forums are filled with blazing egos; sometimes a few show up and leave when the going gets too hot or irrelevant. It happens that there can be a lot of name dropping, numbers of speaking engagements mentioned, acting in significant plays, prestigious schools, as a way of establishing marketable credibility is not uncommon–as if it all has to do with the basic question: How many speakers believe acting is about faking it? I’d say quite a few. That’s it. The point. The common view of what an actor does is that he or she pretends. Right at the most basic level, I suppose. Quite wrong at a deeper, more important level.

How is an acting education that different from any other communication program except in the medium? And, there are cross-over commonalities. I’m sure we could fine point the differences to death, but the basics are the same: communicating with an audience.

Acting class is not a requirement for a trainer or a speaker (although it might be of a college speech program), but it’s good information for speaking or communication in general. How many haven’t had a traditional class in public speaking as opposed to oral communication? How many received their training via Toastmasters or from the pulpit? Not a problem either.

Acting in the deepest sense is really about not acting, but “being” to some people. Even for actors, like trainers and speakers, there has to be control on stage that comes from acting, not “being.”

The answer is that you should take an acting class if you think acting is faking it is hard to take. Why? Because the definition recited by so many individuals is that acting is faking it. I think Barbara may have been marketing her own program; however, I’d say, no, you don’t have to take an acting class to learn about acting, but maybe if speakers who don’t know the answer or like the response should look into learning more what acting is about beyond the Wikipedia answer.

By the way, I’m not all about “method” either, which does call on the actor to dig deep personally to find a similar emotion. Nor am I all about improvisation. I’m probably more psychological, but that works for me. Acting in the deepest sense is really about not acting, but “being” to some people. Even for actors, like training and speaking, there has to be control on stage that comes from acting, not “being.” That basic acting that comes with facial expressions, natural gesturing and stage movement. These are things we may not think about anymore, but they are a part of acting or whatever field you studied to learn what enhances communication.

As a speaker or trainer, I don’t act on stage or in the classroom unless I am doing it on purpose to prove a point and I want my audience or class to know I am acting–because sometimes that is the point. I’m as genuine a speaker as I can be because that’s who I am–not who I’m pretending to be. I don’t like pat speeches with the same jingoistic words and phrases used over and over again because we know they work. Isn’t that fake? Or, have you found the universal truth? I can’t think of anything less ingenuous and more fake. Talk about actors memorizing lines! Sometimes just using enough repetition to keep you audience on topic and less connected to your brand is more genuine and from the heart. Remember to share with your audience. You have empathy for your audience and it is reciprocal by default.

In ancient Latin, persona meant “mask.” Today it does not usually refer to a literal mask but to the “social masks” all humans supposedly wear.

Do actors keep their persona separate while trainers/speakers are their persona? I think there are speakers in that same category as the actors. Actors may adopt another persona but they shouldn’t do away with original; that makes for “crazy” results. You’ve heard of losing oneself in one’s part? If it goes too far…

Some trainers/speakers have separate persona in that speaking or training moment, although I agree they probably shouldn’t. A bad actor can be a good speaker in the same way a great speaker could be a bad actor. A good actor can be a good public speaker, but there are no guarantees either way. Don’t give me the Academy Awards as an example either. I’m sure if the actors/movie stars were getting paid for their acceptance speeches, we’d see different “performances.”

Any decent speaker will use the basics of acting in the course of doing a good job of communicating with an audience from the stage, but they don’t necessarily have to have the depth of “acting methods” to get there. As with anything, there’s a benefit to do what works for you as a speaker. Some speakers benefit greatly from Barbara’s techniques or mine as they do by working with other coaches who have found techniques that work for their students. Barbara and I may have some similarities in background and approach, but I think the common thread that goes through all of us is that we look to the whole person we are coaching, that we look for the ways to bring them out, to help them achieve the persona they seek.

I started to write this for my STAGE Magazine column because it dealt with acting, but it seemed it was more a topic to mull over for training since it sort of began in that arena with a LinkedIn question. Anyone can present information but it takes communication skills have the information listened to intently, understood and remembered. Check out Barbara’s page and mine for more information on the topic of using acting skills in training or public speaking. Know your audience. Know your subject. Know yourself. And, your training session, your speaking engagement, or even your one-on-one coaching session will all come together. For a look at the human side of training from my Cave Man perspective, please check out my book, The Cave Man Guide to Training and Development. Happy training.

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No Need to Have A Conversation-Just Create a Policy

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Over at the HRCapitalist blog, Kris Dunn asked the question, “Why Don’t We Coach Employees More Than We Do?” This is a great question and to quote Dunn, “confrontation sucks.”
Another great question in the HR blog roll today, “What are you holding on to??” This one offered by Steve Brown in his blog, Everyday People. Browne shares a story about a company’s eight page dress code policy filled with all the things that employees can’t wear. Instead of providing guidance, employees are given pages of hard to follow rules.
So what would be your response to a few employees coming to work dressed inappropriately? Or how to you handle other policy or performance concerns? In most cases, drafting and posting an eight page policy isn’t easier than having a conversation with the employees in question. So, why does it still seem to be a common HR and management response?

Dunn is right; confrontation sucks. In my opinion, coaching should never be about confrontation. And when it is, it doesn’t happen. Instead you get an eight page policy about dress codes. The eight page policy makes you feel good about addressing the problem.

But did you change the behavior? Have you complained recently about no one reading policies anyway? If so, why would throw out another policy as the solution?

Address the issue. Be the change the you want to see. Start to remodel your culture where feedback isn’t confrontation.

Because confrontation does suck.

For more resources, See the Human Resources library.

Sheri Mazurek is a training and human resource professional with over 16 years of management experience, and is skilled in all areas of employee management and human resource functions, with a specialty in learning and development. She is available to help you with your Human Resources and Training needs on a contract basis. For more information send an email to smazurek0615@gmail.com or visit www.sherimazurek.com. Follow me on twitter @Sherimaz.

Training Blogs – Using the Web to Train the World

Training Blogs – Using the Web to Train the World

Your first reaction is to say: “You can’t train with Training Blogs alone.” You are absolutely correct; however, it’s human nature to look for the quickest and easiest way to do anything, and it takes some prodding to be thorough and detailed. It is certainly faster today than it was in the past to learn enough to develop a business, a product line–and a well-designed set of interactive services like training and development.

Blogs on any particular subject matter can offer a great starting point for finding the focus we want, for getting ideas, and for getting perspectives.

I started to call this article: Tricks and Treats for Using Training Blogs.

We know it’s a great resource–not only because it’s free, but because it’s also offers topics you need to know about in business, in non-profits and even in government, in leadership, in management, in communication, and of course, in training and development as well as many others.

I know it’s not exactly the season, but it is always the right moment. The Internet and its World Wide Web of Information are a constant source of basic training information, how-to’s, best practices, definitions and various points-of-view. Truly, that can be said about any subject we choose as evidenced by this very web source you are on right now: The Free Management Library. We know it’s a great resource–not only because it’s free, but because it’s also offers topics you need to know about in business, in non-profits and even in government–topics like leadership, management, communication, and of course, training and development as well as many others.

But I’m not just here to promote The Free Management Library and the Training and Development blog. I want to talk about taking what’s out there and making it work for us. I want you to go out and find other sources as well as this one and come back to us and tell us about them. And build. And do it often.

What did we do before when we needed information? I name just a few. For example, we used to research the physical library or bookstores when we needed information. We sought out books, trade periodicals and even magazines and newspapers. We can do all that on the web and more.

Back before we had blogs and people willing to share this information with anyone who could access it, we may have apprenticed in a company and shadowed someone until we knew his or her job well enough to make it ours. Either way, the point is that we are learning from others. If a blog or article isn’t enough, and it isn’t, we can still contact the author directly. Hard to do, when the author of the book wrote that article sever years ago. Today, it’s easier and information can easily be today’s information.

From here we become more detailed-oriented, seeking out the best practices and looking at perspectives and comparing those to ours.

Look at the way most blogs operate. Blog sites vary from personal diatribes or musings on various topics tocovering hard news and current events. Most is in between. Struggling business people or business wannabees have blogs to draw attention to themselves. It makes a website more complete. It gives you a chance to sell by example and sample. See the site for what it is, but you can find information you can use if you look. Maybe this entrepreneur did something especially well and gives you an idea for your business. A best practice perhaps, not a copy.

Other blogs may provide a vehicle for writers to write about topics they are expert in or just write a few basics. Remember what I said about the basic information, the definitions, the how-to’s–this is it. This is a jumping off place. We can search more than one place for the basics because those basics may have changed, or the terminology, or the processes, or the new basics may include areas you may want to include if you were aware of them. From here we become more detailed-oriented, seeking out the best practices and looking at perspectives and comparing those to ours. We are beginning to actually use the information. We weed out the okay stuff and note the good stuff.

You can ask the kinds of specific questions that you need to have answered. Before you may have had to assume–and we all know assuming anything without a lot of credibility behind that assumption is never a good thing.

Here’s one thing not available in hardcover books: You can become colleagues with the professionals you wish to emulate. That networking is invaluable in fleshing out what you can find on your own. Now, you have a vehicle, either personally via a blog contact, or through a professional or social network to ask and answer questions. You can ask the kinds of specific questions that you need to have answered. Before you may have had to assume–and we all know assuming anything without a lot of credibility behind that assumption is never a good thing.

What training blogs–the kind I am addressing here–should not be is a way to promote yourself as a training company, training developer, trainer, etc. That information is out there. All you need is the link. People are more likely to click on the link than read all about you–unless they wanted to know it in the first place. I have a bio on my website; I also have a home page that talks about my training philosophy–what makes me who I am, and hopefully, what makes me different. I can’t really sell a fit.

Personally I’m turned off by sites that do that. Tell me what you’ve got to offer and I’ll see the connection. That’s me. This probably comes from a deep-seated abhorrence of being “hard sold” anything, but you have a chance to choose and keep the same information, note it high on your list or eliminate it if you wish. It’s not up to me. Maybe the way I am about those sites is not you. Maybe it doesn’t even bother you because you can filter. Great thing about the Internet; there are approaches for every taste.

I tend to write longer articles than most. For awhile, it bothered me that I wrote more than what I considered average, but then I started to look at what I was writing. I write training facts but also communication and psychological ones, but I write from what I know. I write perspective. I write commentary about training approaches, implementing training, designing training, professional development, and more. I try to put the obvious in a not-so-obvious place. I want to give people to think about. That’s me. Generally, if you read what I write, you get more than the basics, more than a how-to, more than a definition. You get another way of looking at those things, and maybe a summary of how others might see it. One day I might write from a trainer’s perspective and another day from a manager’s perspective.

As someone experienced in the above areas, this is the perfect place for me to be. Not having my own business so established I have no time to write about the subjects I talk to clients about, I get to do that and receive some recognition and links to my own web page. People start to get to know me professionally.

This brings me to what the Internet and blogging is not good for. It is not the way to get the world to notice you. Stardom is random. Talent in the right place at the right time. You probably are very good at what you do. I think I am good at what I do. There is a world of people out there who think the same way we do. If they don’t, they are probably depressed. The blog is a start. Promote your ideas, your approach, but not you so much. Provide opportunity for people to find you easily. Invite them. (Don’t sell them, in my opinion.) They will come to you where they can get the most information and connect with you if that is their purpose. You prefer select clientele–those who may actually want your services.

As for the blogs we use to learn from? Also a start of a terrific learning experience.

For more resources about training, see the Training library.

For more on training, communication, performance topics, check out my website. Look under the category of What I Say. As always, these thoughts are my own, but feel free to add yours. Anywhere you have the opportunity. Just think before you publish. For a look at the human side of training from my Cave Man perspective, please check out my book, The Cave Man Guide to Training and Development. Happy training.

HR’s Number One Priority-Depends on Who You Ask

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If you ask a number of people what is HR’s number one priority or responsibility, you’ll most likely get a number of different responses based on who is answering the question even if two of those asked are in the same position. People are egocentric by nature. They tend to view things from their own experiences and needs. Below are a few examples of what one might hear, although there are many more.

CEO- “The primary responsibility of HR is risk management. They are here to keep us in compliance.”

CFO- “HR is here to keep our human capital operating at a maximum level of efficiency so that we can manage our labor costs.”

Managers-“I need HR to find me better talent.”

Supervisors-“HR’s primary responsibility is to handle my performance problems.”

Employees-“HR is here to make sure I am treated fair. Or at least they are supposed to be.”

HR- “It depends.”

With these varying viewpoints and opinions of what HR should be doing, it can be hard to define and measure success. Defining a terrible HR person may be in the eye of the beholder, but Suzanne Lucas, a.k.a. The Evil HR Lady offers you nine signs to figure it out. Follow the link and check out her list. It is top notch and covers the gamut of HR responsibilities from compliance to recruiting. Let me know what you add.

For more resources, See the Human Resources library.

Sheri Mazurek is a training and human resource professional with over 16 years of management experience, and is skilled in all areas of employee management and human resource functions, with a specialty in learning and development. She is available to help you with your Human Resources and Training needs on a contract basis. For more information send an email to smazurek0615@gmail.com or visit www.sherimazurek.com. Follow me on twitter @Sherimaz.

Ignore the Bull and Get the Training Results

Ignore the Bull and Get the Training Results

A great training package! This outside training group has a super online presence with an impressive list of companies, the right degrees (the right schools, too), tons of publications and pre-packaged training developed by someone else–experts, of course, and best of all–they are going to come in and tell you what they can do for your company. I hope by now you can tell I’m being facetious. I can think of a lot of clichés right now, but I’m going to resist and let you fill in the blanks. You know…the importance of what’s outside and what’s inside.

We all know how complicated the world of business is, and how easy it is to let someone tell us what’s going to work for us because it worked elsewhere. Did it really work elsewhere? This group said it did. There are company testimonials on the fancy, very professional-looking website, or the brochure, or the presentation; however, you know the proof may be in the phone call you asked your assistant to make to all the companies listed as references before you talk too much about business.

There are company testimonials on the fancy, very professional-looking website, or the brochure, or the presentation; however, you know the proof may be in the phone call you asked your assistant to make to all the companies listed as references before you talk too much about business.

If the training group representatives are too busy to wait, maybe they don’t have the time to really take a good look at your company and see where it is differs from other companies, or see what your company really needs in the way of training that really does need customization, or really do the homework required. That’s a problem.

Does this particular training outfit look for ways your company is similar to other companies it has worked with and bring in the same or slightly modified to look customized for your company? Although it may sound a little fishy, it is a business reality in a capitalistic world. Time is money. An easier client may be the next appointment. That’s the reality.

I don’t like a hard sell, and I don’t care for flashy tactics. But we do get busy and the flashier professional look often wins. Why? Because it looks good on paper and can sell, sell, sell. Is that what you really want? To be sold, or to get results? I doubt being “sold” a bill of goods is what made you what you are today. Are you one to order a steak cooked one way and when it comes back another, do not send it back? Not unless you are willing to accept whatever the server brings you. That doesn’t sound like money well spent. The best return on the investment. So, what is? That depends on what your company needs.

I’m not saying the not-as-shiny-looking training group or individual that comes into your office promising results is better either. You want a return on your investment. A little research, a little more time spent checking references can save a lot in the long run. The new guy, the break off company, may take the time to see you get what you want. He has to earn your respect and the respect of those you know. If he broke away from another training group and started his own, check it out. It could be he didn’t like the way the group did business, and wanted a chance to try it another way–his way–or what he thinks is the right way. How does he answer that very tough question? Like someone in business competition or with sincerity you can feel. Feelings are allowed in business I understand. Facts and figures can be made up easier than creating a whole person. Feelings can fare better than facts and figures when personality and character counts.

Don’t be sold efficiency. Demand it. Demand it of vendors, too. Ride the bull if you wish, just watch out for the horns.

Of course, when it comes down to it, busy people skip steps, multi-task, try to do it all; some times that’s not a good idea. Resist the urge. The bottom line is at stake. Yours. Your people trained in the way they need to be trained may not be in the “book” or “pre-packaged proven” tactics. They may be perfectly fine packages and tactics, but I’d rather have someone hash it out with the same kind of passion I have for my company, with my goals in mind–not a group or individual looking for a quick fix to throw together that will impress you and win the contract. Don’t be sold efficiency. Demand it. Demand it of vendors, too. Ride the bull if you wish, just watch out for the horns.

One last word of advice: look at the training representatives and ask yourself some questions. Are they salespeople or trainers? Are they looking to close or looking for opportunity to do it right. It’s all in the perspective.

There’s nothing wrong with big training groups, professional-looking accouterments, and strong, dynamic personalities. Some may be a perfect fit for your company; some not so much. You want employees to fit your company so why not hire the people who train them to be what you want them to be? Shouldn’t they fit, too? If you don’t do the hiring of outside trainers yourself and have an HR or training officer do it, you wouldn’t be wrong to ask them to check references before they bring you the possibly glitzy package they decided on. We aren’t infallible.

Of course, all opinions here are my own. Want to see more on this and other topics, check out my website. You’ll find my training and development articles, right here on the Free Management Library site. I write on other things, too, mostly about communication, behavior and human performance. Want to tell a different side to the story? Please comment here, contact me on my website, or e-mail me–and I promise to respond. Or, do a longer piece by guest writing on The Free Management Library by following the directions at the top of the page.

For a look at the human side of training from my Cave Man perspective, please check out my book, The Cave Man Guide to Training and Development. Happy training.